GivingUp Posted November 28, 2006 Posted November 28, 2006 My ex unblocked me after 2 months why? ill i know is she broke up me after a year and a half she fond out last week that i was hanging out with a girl and now this ,why
WhiteKnight Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 What was the break up like before it happened? Maybe after the break up she wanted to try and be friends with you. I had my ex-gf done that to me and we are slowly reconciliating but recently I have walked away from her now. And let things heal that way. Trouble is though, you could never be sure of your ex-gf and her intensions. Maybe she wants to be a friend of you and be supportive. Either that she has been thinking of you and needs a friend. Can be many reasons, until your ex-gf speaks to you, let her make the first move and you make the right choices from there.
Art_Critic Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 My question to you is why didn't you have her blocked ? You need to block and delete her.. if you had done that you would never have known that she unblocked you. Why have someone on your IM list that doesn't want to talk to you ?
WhiteKnight Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 My question to you is why didn't you have her blocked ? You need to block and delete her.. if you had done that you would never have known that she unblocked you. Why have someone on your IM list that doesn't want to talk to you ? Yeah it could be strange with that one as well. I did remember in the past I had not removed my ex-gf from my msn list, I just left her on block and left it like it, for the time being so I can decide whether to be friends with her or not in the near future. I noticed that she didn't leave me on block after like 2 months and then she unblocked me. Also to make it more interesting, I checked if she had me on her MSN list with another program to verify and she still did though. Interesting I thought... but that's getting a little off topic, just thought to share my experience. However in you case GivingUp, sometimes it is really hard to understand what does go through a woman's mind. Its best not to understand it heh... trust me it drives you more insane than trying to figure out the main answer. The way I can possible look at it now, is either she is willing to try and be friends with you. Being the whole friends thing, can and can't sometimes work out in great length. Sometimes it would be difficult to understand why she left you unblock, maybe she's thinking of you in a sense that she doesn't want to lose anyone. I know in a sense that she lost you, and after the break up its still very painful. Even recalling the good memories, you would still feel it. If you want my honest opinion, there are only two ways you can do this. You can either let her talk to you first and see what her intensions are... try to be friends but don't talk as often with her, or, leave her block for awhile and try to get things working for you and your future relationship. By then you should be strong enough to maintain a good lifestyle, and perhaps, you might leave all of your ex-gf's unblocked when you are married to be supportive of them and so forth.
Krying Posted December 1, 2006 Posted December 1, 2006 OT, how can you check if someone has you on block or you are still on their userlist?
WhiteKnight Posted December 1, 2006 Posted December 1, 2006 There are a couple programs that I do use, cause I'm an IT bloke and still studying the course through University. Apparently there are two programs, they are - AMSN and Trillian Both are quite good, they can log into your MSN or whichever program you for chatting (depends on the software) and you can actually see if they have you on their list or not. If they don't have you on their list. It simply means either you haven't talked to them and they have decided to leave you alone but you are not blocked. Sometimes with these programs they can tell you, you are blocked or not (but bare in mind that the 'blocking' information is not always 100% accurate).
Author GivingUp Posted December 2, 2006 Author Posted December 2, 2006 Thank you all for ur responses I really appreciate it, she actually called me, she first called my friend to see if I changed my phone number but my friend said no. Then my friend asked if she was going back to me she said no. but that’s okay I guess. She also said to her friend don’t tell him when im coming back which I no is in 13 days. The ex said she has to call me to explain some things which pissed me off because I got my clouser . so the ex called and asked how I was and everything saying she was sorry for the break up I responded and said no big deal we laughed and joked she told me she was spoiling her self and buying a lot of things seconded she said she has been eating to much sense we broke up and then said are we friends I said im cool with that. I acted like I didn’t give a S**** why is she opening old wounds and second why doesn’t she want to tell me when she is coming and why did she tell her friend not to tell me when she is. I’m really confused is she trying to upset me or is she breaking the glass so when she gets back she can see what happens maybe she wants friendship or maybe she wants more what do u guys think
WhiteKnight Posted December 3, 2006 Posted December 3, 2006 I think this was related to your previous thread GivingUp. Have a look for my feedback. Thanks. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t105781/
hollywood24 Posted December 3, 2006 Posted December 3, 2006 There are a couple programs that I do use, cause I'm an IT bloke and still studying the course through University. Apparently there are two programs, they are - AMSN and Trillian Both are quite good, they can log into your MSN or whichever program you for chatting (depends on the software) and you can actually see if they have you on their list or not. If they don't have you on their list. It simply means either you haven't talked to them and they have decided to leave you alone but you are not blocked. Sometimes with these programs they can tell you, you are blocked or not (but bare in mind that the 'blocking' information is not always 100% accurate). does this work for AIM also? Because I have aim loaded on trillian and don't know how to check
WhiteKnight Posted December 3, 2006 Posted December 3, 2006 Can't say that I have tried it hollywood24, give it a shot.
Guest Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 GivingUP and WhiteKnight How is it that you guys know when you're being blocked through trillian? Or some other program? Thanks...
WhiteKnight Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 Depends on the program that you use. In AMSN for example, it usually has an X marked beside the person's username (or email address) to indicate that you are on their list but you have been blocked. In Trillian don't know for sure. But as I said before... sometimes the information is not always 100% accurate.
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