desperate4change Posted November 28, 2006 Posted November 28, 2006 A couple of nights ago, I was driving home and stopped at the store. Next to me a guy pulled up and got out of a truck -- I immediately recognized him from a dealership where I take my car for service. During the time he worked there, he used to flirt and make comments and tried to get my number directions to my house or a date for "drinks". He's really a hottie, hottie mechanic guy, I had a very difficult time saying "no". He'd talk about his kids and his GF (that he lived with) from time to time, so I knew he was in a committed relationship and I didn't want to get into this so I stuck to it.. Anyway.. back to the other night... He waved at me, I got out of the car.. and we caught up about what was going on in life.. the kids, work and the like.. he said that he and the GF had gotten married about 2 years ago and it "was the worst mistake of his life" and then he started... "you look great, you're so beautiful, I really miss seeing you and talking to you, blah, blah, blah...". I immediately recogized that he was trying, again, to woo me under his spell... batting his eyelids -- yes, batting his eyes, gazing from head to toe... Oh, he's good. He got back on the M subject and said he didn't know how long he'd stay M and he may need somewhere to store his "stuff" did I know of a place or have room at my place? OH PLEASE!!!! I told him that I knew of a storage areas for rent near his current home but that was all... A few more sentences, he told me where he works now and invited me to bring my car for "servicing" and mentioned he would "take really good care" of me. When I got in my car to leave, I just felt really bad for his wife. I recognized exactly what he was doing and where he was leading to immediately -- probably because I've been there and I'm still there with my MM. Like I need another sucky R with a different MM!! I promise, I promise, I will never, ever, ever.... again get into a relationship like this. I'm seeing more clearly today about my situation with my MM, I guess taking little steps forward is better than not moving at all. I'm still waiting for the face to face opportunity to have closure with him. I'm really tempted to do it on the telephone -- but I tried that once and it didn't work for me... I want him to see my tears, not just hear me sobbing on the other line.
peacelove Posted November 28, 2006 Posted November 28, 2006 A friend of mine went out over the weekend & said all that's out there are mm looking for single women. Bummer!! No single guys left or what???
Author desperate4change Posted November 28, 2006 Author Posted November 28, 2006 Tell her she has to be really careful at the local home improvement stores -- I think they have a deposit boxes at the entrance where all the MM keep the wedding rings safe until they check out!!
peacelove Posted November 28, 2006 Posted November 28, 2006 Tell her she has to be really careful at the local home improvement stores -- I think they have a deposit boxes at the entrance where all the MM keep the wedding rings safe until they check out!! Now that's funny :lmao:
Author desperate4change Posted November 28, 2006 Author Posted November 28, 2006 Hey, this could be a fun thread... Where do you go NOT to meet a MM? HMMM, I'm thinking, I'm thinking!!
Jane Doe Posted November 28, 2006 Posted November 28, 2006 Yuck. That guy sounds kinda creepy to me. It kinda makes you wonder how many people that day he used that line on. You could so clearly see what he was up to. Now, apply that observation to your MM from an objective point of view. There's no difference.
Author desperate4change Posted November 28, 2006 Author Posted November 28, 2006 Good point JD!! Listening to the content of the words he uses.. the phrases. Listen objectively instead of with the warmness of my heart -- which is what I always end up doing...
Author desperate4change Posted November 28, 2006 Author Posted November 28, 2006 No MM at the Friary, unless we have to count God.
peacelove Posted November 28, 2006 Posted November 28, 2006 Seems like there's a lot more mm than mw out there. Sleezy mm. That's all.
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