kathryn Posted November 28, 2006 Posted November 28, 2006 Recently I have not been myself and I feel as though my marrage has changed also. Over the summer I found myself being given attention by various men and at the beginning I was flattered but slowly I began to wonder whether my husband could be one of those men driving by(because they all seemed to be doing it) and beeping the horn and showing women some attention but I tried to stop this train of thought, telling myself that he was my hubby of 14 years and I had no reason to doubt him, everything was fine between us and sex was fantastic anyway one day we were out shopping and I noticed that my hubby was smiling at this woman, an overwhelming rush of upset jelousy and anger came over me and now I can't seem to control my thoughts or emotions, sometimes I feel as though I hate men and always feel on edge when he goes out to work. I have spoken to him and he assures me that he hasn't ever done anything and never would but then again he would say that wouldn't he? He has apologised for making me feel like I do and has tried to bring me back to my normal self but I just can't do it, it's just something inside me that has changed. I still love him (in fact I think that I love him too much if that's possible) I am so frigthened of what is heading towards us if I carry on like this and I'm frightened of what coming towards us if I leave it. I hope you can understand what I am trying to explain.
Spinderella Posted November 28, 2006 Posted November 28, 2006 What has happened to suddenly make you lose confidence like this? What was life like prior to you feeling this way? Did you feel guilty about enjoying the attention from these men? You know, it is perfectly natural for people in a marriage, or partnership to enjoy a little flirt every now and then. In a good and solid relationship, these things are no threat, and in fact, very healthy.
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