sharir27 Posted November 28, 2006 Posted November 28, 2006 I have been married for the last 7 years. They were not good times, but such is life. Anyways, I have been a housewife for 7 years. My baby started 1st grade and I decided to go back to school. I met a wonderful friend and had lots of things in common with him. Well, I guess are talking started to get out of hand. The next thing I knew, he wasn't talking to me anymore. The seperation of our friendship has led to desperation. I miss talking to him. My husband knew I was talking to him, no secrets. I don't believe that I did anything wrong, but I can't help but feel guilty because I would rather talk to him than my own husband. (until recently, my husband acted as if I didn't exist) I just want to stop the hurt that seems to be at the core of my soul.
LucreziaBorgia Posted November 28, 2006 Posted November 28, 2006 I I just want to stop the hurt that seems to be at the core of my soul. What are you willing to do to make that hurt stop? Its going to take some serious work on your part, and your husband's part. Would you consider marriage counseling or individual counseling?
oyster Posted November 28, 2006 Posted November 28, 2006 I have been married for the last 7 years. They were not good times, but such is life. Anyways, I have been a housewife for 7 years. My baby started 1st grade and I decided to go back to school. I met a wonderful friend and had lots of things in common with him. Well, I guess are talking started to get out of hand. The next thing I knew, he wasn't talking to me anymore. The seperation of our friendship has led to desperation. I miss talking to him. My husband knew I was talking to him, no secrets. I don't believe that I did anything wrong, but I can't help but feel guilty because I would rather talk to him than my own husband. (until recently, my husband acted as if I didn't exist) I just want to stop the hurt that seems to be at the core of my soul. you classmate did the intelligent thing by avoiding being an other man (OM). He saved you from having an affair. now your husband recently paying attention to your existence is not good. Someone who changes because of an event might not be sustainable.
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