farooq138 Posted November 28, 2006 Posted November 28, 2006 first of all iam sorry for the incorrect spelling and gramer im dumd some times. ok, i have been at this job for the last year working next to this girl for that long too. for the first 11 months she was dating a guy, so in that time her and i have got to be really good friends, we were going for lunch together, talking, and joking together. i found her atractive and fun and a really good person, but i never became atracted to her because she was in the relationship with this other guy, thats how iam once i found out someone was in a relationship i dont think about them. so about a month ago they broke up, she did good about it, and i never really thought about it. ever since then i have noticed that she is flirting with me a little more, were going for lunch more often and we talk alot more. i thought about maybe she was into me but i never considered it and i got on with my day to day life. so yesterday her and i spent the day together in the big smoke (we live in a small resort town). it all started when i picked her up at her house to go into town, she was a little hungover and she decided to tell me some of her stories about her life, not little stories about life but really personal stories, stuff about hooking up with random people and **** like that, stuff that you dont tell friends. now when iam talking to someone or spending the day together, i can only talk to for aybe 3 hrs before i just cant stand talking, but not her, we talked all day and we could probably talked for more, i told her alot of things that i dont tell other people. i dont know what to do, i think it might be nothing but i dont know, please help me, even if its one word, if anyone has the same thing happen to them or anything close to it. thanks for letting me get this of my chest it helped
Pyro Posted November 28, 2006 Posted November 28, 2006 If you like her, ask her out, or make a move, otherwise she will only consider you a friend if all you do is talk to her. Also beware that you may only be a rebound guy since she has only been single for a month after an 11 month relationship.
Poboy Posted November 28, 2006 Posted November 28, 2006 what do you want from her & this ... take it ahead from the friendship part or stay where you are... its possible that she might have feelings for you , equally possible that she might not and just be good friends... so you decide if you want to ask her & maybe risk loosing or stay good friends ... if you are unsure , its mostly that its just good friendship & we take the signs as something more ... its your call.
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