blondepanther74 Posted November 27, 2006 Posted November 27, 2006 What does it mean, if anything, when the love of your life leaves their name on your classmates.com profile and you haven't seen each other in almost 13 years? Classmates has this new feature where you can leave your name if you want to show someone that you visited their profile. I checked mine this weekend and the person who holds my heart put their name there so I would see it. Does this mean they wouldn't mind contact or am I reading too much into it? Men, I'd especially like to hear from you on this one, since I'm a lady and the person who left their name is my ex husband. From a guy's perspective, should I be reading anything into this? Thanks
Cub Posted November 27, 2006 Posted November 27, 2006 I'd say it might be. You should casually contact him just to see what's up, but don't expect anything.
jerbear Posted November 27, 2006 Posted November 27, 2006 I would leave it alone unless you want to casually say hi. There must be a reason why he is an ex-husband. 13 years is a long time, maybe it is time for a friendship? Interesting to see a Panther, Cub, and a Bear chat... :lmao:
Author blondepanther74 Posted November 27, 2006 Author Posted November 27, 2006 Quote "Interesting to see a Panther, Cub, and a Bear chat... :lmao:" That is something, LOL!
Kamille Posted November 28, 2006 Posted November 28, 2006 And here's an elephant! Ok - love of your life leaves you a message on a website. Personally, I think it's safe to assume that you could contact him if you wished. Just be clear about what kind of contact you want, and what kind of contact would be healthy for you.
Author blondepanther74 Posted November 28, 2006 Author Posted November 28, 2006 Ok, I called and left a message and he called me back a little bit ago. At first he denied doing it, then said that maybe he was online goofing off and might have done it. The call was an uncomfortable disaster and I'll bawl into my pillow tonight.
melodymatters Posted November 28, 2006 Posted November 28, 2006 Oh, so sorry panther !! if it helps, I would have done the same thing, assuming that he wouldn't have left a little ' trail " for me to follow if he didn't want contact. Who knows, maybe he's a fat, bald, alcoholic now, and you wouldn't want him back anyway !!! Don't read too much into this, don't cry and move on
Author blondepanther74 Posted November 28, 2006 Author Posted November 28, 2006 Thanks Melody! I will definitely imagine him bald tonight. He is a SFC in the Army so I'm pretty sure he isn't fat. Any other terrible visions I can plant in my head this evening to keep my mind off of him would be great!
IpAncA Posted November 29, 2006 Posted November 29, 2006 What does it mean, if anything, when the love of your life leaves their name on your classmates.com profile and you haven't seen each other in almost 13 years? Classmates has this new feature where you can leave your name if you want to show someone that you visited their profile. I checked mine this weekend and the person who holds my heart put their name there so I would see it. Does this mean they wouldn't mind contact or am I reading too much into it? Men, I'd especially like to hear from you on this one, since I'm a lady and the person who left their name is my ex husband. From a guy's perspective, should I be reading anything into this? Thanks I have a question for you. What have you been doing for the last 13 years of the whole dating world? Were you ever together or something?
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