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he dumped me but was real nice and there for me, hes not a bad guy and we are trying to remain friends. we are on a no contact rule right now as to both get over eachother. the breakup was complicated since we were long distance.

 

 

so i am not mad nor is he, do i get him an christmas presant? i am a nice person and like to make people i care for happy, is it out of line to send him a package?

 

 

thanks

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Don't do it, don't do it. don't do it.

Especially if you are trying to get over one another.

NC means no contact whatsoever.

What are your motives really for sending a gift?

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not sure what my motives are. didnt think that well on the subject. he was always amazing about getting me gifts so i figured it was still ok even if we were not together.... but if i send him something he might think i am trying to win him over again... maybe i wont do it.

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He's not your boyfriend, and regardless of what you both think, you're not friends. So treat him like you'd treat a friend who decided to end your friendship because you weren't cool enough for her.

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in the start of the break up 6 days ago, i was so nice and understanding.... i am starting to get bitter, mad, pissed... even a bit of hate!

 

i dont want to go down that path emotionaly since we had an amazing two years and the break up is complicated since we live on diffirent sides of the u.s .... i guess i gotta work this out in my head.

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