bubbalump Posted November 27, 2006 Posted November 27, 2006 Hey guys and gals, Ever just have a bad day out of nowhere? My ex broke up with me 2 months ago, we were together for 6 months. She really wanted to be friends after the breakup and would text /call/im a few times everyweek to see how i was doing. After a month of trying to be friends, i felt it was too much to still be incontact with her and told her i cant be friends as my feelings are too strong for her and i still loved her, so i told her we shouldnt talk. We broke up because she is unsure of what she wants in life and she is at a new college after transfering. I want her to be happy and i am trying to move on. But during the "friend time " after the breakup she would tell me how much she missed me and she loved me...i was going crazy with emotions. Well its been a month since i told her we shouldnt contact eachother, we both told eachother we loved one another and said goodbye. Ill be honest , i started NC not only to stop the hurt of only being friends but honestly because i wanted to "win her back" and thought of it as a way to do so, after reading some posts on "how to get someone back". Ive been doing well, and i think about her all the time , but im really putting the effort in to move on, hanging with friends, working out and such. But today i saw a few pictures of her with a mutual friend (another girl) of ours. And i couldnt help but just stare at them...right now i feel like im back to square one ...i havent cried since the breakup , but im kind of an emotional wreck right now . I dont know what im looking for but , i just though it would feel better to write this out . thanks for listening
Trialbyfire Posted November 27, 2006 Posted November 27, 2006 I'm a firm believer that people need to "grieve" over a relationship first before they can really move on. It's also an excellent outlet for pent up emotions that we normally suppress. Get it all out now and when you feel ready, pull yourself out and continue on. Stay strong.
Kelso Posted November 27, 2006 Posted November 27, 2006 I know how you feel dude. We broke up about 6 weeks ago. I even wrote a letter in here yesterday to describe how I feel all better than I did 2 weeks ago. Today - I looked at her friends blog page and saw photos of her and I just stared at them and I just wanted to cry. I want her so much back... I have no idea what si going on in her mind. When we broke up, she asked if we could still be friends and I said of course. Now, 6 weeks later....I haven't received a single phone call from her...not an SMS...not an e-mail...nothing. This is so strange... I'm feeling so much down right now ... I can't help it ...
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