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I've written up all of this before, but my BF and I broke up a little over a week ago. We've had a week of NC, then I called him just to chat, then he IMed me online, and just now he called me asking if I wanted to study tomorrow.

 

I said yes, but my question is, do I? It seems like it would just be a slightly depressing situation since we'll both be working and stressed out, and I want to make happy memories when we get together, at least at first. I was thinking our first get-together should be to play games on the weekend, not to study right before exams. Should I back out? Is there ever a good enough excuse, or will I seem flaky/nervous? Or should I go?

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Someone please answer.

 

I need him to WANT to see me, or not to see him at all. I feel like if I go tomorrow it will just be another case of my pressuring him into doing things, since I brought up the study date. In fact during my phone call I briefly mentioned tonight as time for study date, but he moved it to tomorrow...and I dunno. I want him to be the one contacting me, wanting to see me, not the other way around.

 

Am I right? Or is the fact that he responded and is making SOME effort indicative of him wanting to see me and that I should go? I just don't know waht to do...I want to maximize my chances of this working

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I said yes, but my question is, do I?

Yes.

 

But make sure that it's productive study. If you're going to have your mind on him and your relationship the whole time (likely??), then I would say it's not a good idea (and tell him this).

 

I can respect reasoning like that.

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