missmebaby Posted November 27, 2006 Posted November 27, 2006 well i was supposed to have a date tonight. i met this guy through myspace but never actually met him in person. we have had this date planned for a few days and about 7 hours ago he instant messaged me as soon as I got online and said he was going to ride his motorcycle for awhile and wanted to let me know the date is still on and he will get ahold of me later. well that was 7 hours ago and i havent heard from him and its getting late. i know he was home like an hour and a half ago because he was signed on to myspace. i called him but he didnt pick up and hasnt called me back. i dont understand it at all....we have been talking for the past few weeks and he is always the one that initiates contact. he will call me, instant message me, send me messages through myspace. he has said he cant wait to see me. and hes 25 years old which is 5 years older than me i figured he would be mature enough by now to not stand someone up. he could of at least made up some excuse why he couldnt hang out instead of just ignoring me and leaving me hanging. my best friend said she has had the same thing happen to her a few times before...does anyone have any ideas why guys do this??? whats his deal??
Pyro Posted November 27, 2006 Posted November 27, 2006 well i was supposed to have a date tonight. i met this guy through myspace but never actually met him in person. we have had this date planned for a few days and about 7 hours ago he instant messaged me as soon as I got online and said he was going to ride his motorcycle for awhile and wanted to let me know the date is still on and he will get ahold of me later. well that was 7 hours ago and i havent heard from him and its getting late. i know he was home like an hour and a half ago because he was signed on to myspace. i called him but he didnt pick up and hasnt called me back. i dont understand it at all....we have been talking for the past few weeks and he is always the one that initiates contact. he will call me, instant message me, send me messages through myspace. he has said he cant wait to see me. and hes 25 years old which is 5 years older than me i figured he would be mature enough by now to not stand someone up. he could of at least made up some excuse why he couldnt hang out instead of just ignoring me and leaving me hanging. my best friend said she has had the same thing happen to her a few times before...does anyone have any ideas why guys do this??? whats his deal?? Age has nothing to do with maturity in some aspects. I know people in their 30s and 40's who are still too immature to tell someone the truth. I don't understand that. Maybe he has cold feet. Guys will usually do that after they had slept with the girl or have made quite the effort to, but to no avail. It must not matter to him if you know that he is ignoring you since he is giving you the opportunity to see that he is done riding and is on the computer ignoring your calls. Don't wait up for him and don't let it ruin your night. Go do your own thing.
someone2 Posted November 27, 2006 Posted November 27, 2006 because men are just crazy? seriously though, maybe he has an excuse? It is still too early to tell. He may call and tell you what happened. If not, then he is pretty simply insane. There is no reason to stand some one up for no reason like that. Btw, not all men are like this. Don't stereotype us You will find out that there are lots of caring, loving, mature guys out there
jerbear Posted November 27, 2006 Posted November 27, 2006 Bad boys? Bad boys? Whatcha gonna do? If he calls you'll be happy to go on a date with him, two months later. 20 and 25 is not mature, I remember walking away at 20 and even 25 on dates. So it is not maturity or being a male. He is just pulling your strings. A word of caution, do keep your guard up, when you decide to go on the date.
socialight Posted November 27, 2006 Posted November 27, 2006 i get similar treatments from some women in their mid to late 20's. Riddler is exactly right age does not correspond with maturity.
Kamille Posted November 27, 2006 Posted November 27, 2006 Moments like these, I like to remember my favorite quote from the movie Amelie: narrator: Nino is late. Amelie can only see two explanations. 1 - he didn't get the photo. 2 - before he could assemble it, a gang of bank robbers took him hostage. The cops gave chase. They got away... but he caused a crash. When he came to, he'd lost his memory. An ex-con picked him up, mistook him for a fugitive, and shipped him to Istanbul. There he met some Afghan raiders who too him to steal some Russian warheads. But their truck hit a mine in Tajikistan. He survived, took to the hills, and became a Mujaheddin. Amelie refuses to get upset for a guy who'll eat borscht all his life in a hat like a tea cozy.
magichands Posted November 27, 2006 Posted November 27, 2006 Moments like these, I like to remember my favorite quote from the movie Amelie:narrator: Nino is late. Amelie can only see two explanations. 1 - he didn't get the photo. 2 - before he could assemble it, a gang of bank robbers took him hostage. The cops gave chase. They got away... but he caused a crash. When he came to, he'd lost his memory. An ex-con picked him up, mistook him for a fugitive, and shipped him to Istanbul. There he met some Afghan raiders who too him to steal some Russian warheads. But their truck hit a mine in Tajikistan. He survived, took to the hills, and became a Mujaheddin. Amelie refuses to get upset for a guy who'll eat borscht all his life in a hat like a tea cozy. :lmao: I would give my tusks away for an imagination like that. Maybe even trade my trunk in, too (that is, unless it is claimed in the name of love by another pink elephant).narrator: Amélie has found Nino's photo album and his "lost" posters. Any normal girl would call the number, meet him, return the album and see if her dream is viable. It's called a reality check. The last thing Amélie wants.
Guest Posted November 27, 2006 Posted November 27, 2006 Don't give this slacker a second chance - he had his opportunity with you and he blew it. I envision a world where all women react this way and men finally learn how to treat women better. - a nice guy.
Guest Posted November 27, 2006 Posted November 27, 2006 Some men, well a lot of men actually seem to forget that the whole world does not in fact revolve around them. They live in this delusional mindset that everyone should work on their schedule and they can show up whenever they feel like it, and you damn well better be ready because he will bitch, whine and complain a minimum of one hour for each 10 minutes you make him wait. You will be deemed 'high maintenance', while he remains, in his own mind smelling like a friggin rose... Don't put up with it. The problem is, too many girls let these deadbeats treat them that way, and it soon becomes acceptable and common behavior. Stand up for your fellow gender and help bring down the unreliable, self centered dirtbags!
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