the_alchemyst Posted November 26, 2006 Posted November 26, 2006 Nevermind the confession. Yesterday I was browsing a website to see if I can meet a group with interests similar to mine. And believe me, there are many groups. And you know what? I can't find anything! It's like I'm interested in a wide array of things, but not that interested in them. Like writing: I like to write, but not enough to go meet people and read off my angsty-masochist prose to them. That's just . . . ZZzZzZ..... And I like videogames. A lot. But I've been out of that scene for a while, so I don't know what's up. And thinking about going to meet them to play Halo Online or something is just . . . Er, uhm. ok. no......... And I like music. Yes. But then I don't even know which type of music is my favorite. Maybe metal. Maybe classic rock. Maybe ballads. And I can't ever remember names or anything/anyone. Lyrics. Yea right. So, that's just . . . What? Who? Yea, I don't like this............ What's wrong with me?! What is up with that? Am I that bizarre that I can't find one group?! I don't know how to work this.
silentalways Posted November 26, 2006 Posted November 26, 2006 there is nothing wrong with u...looks like you have made a lot of big decisions in a short period of time [i have done the same] and u just need to sit back and live in the moment for a bit and let all those decisions you have made work their way out and your path will unfold. if u are like me, u enjoy being around great friends and love the companionship of a good woman but u had those things in the past and u will again. just stay positive and get out and doa few social things and get plenty of rest and exercise. start a routine again and stick with it. good luck.
IpAncA Posted November 26, 2006 Posted November 26, 2006 No your not bizarre. Just undecided. Why do you have to find a group of a certain interest. Find one with a variety of things people like.
KittenMoon Posted November 26, 2006 Posted November 26, 2006 Hey girl- I was a MESS when I started my writing class just a few weeks after my break-up. This was back when I still cried 10X a day- after every class I'd come home and cry, often on the phone to my mom. This was back when my stomach hurt all the time, so I could only drink tea when we hung out at the coffee shop afterwards. But the class ended up being SO great. I began writing again. I met a ton of people, and now I'm part of two writing groups, mostly with my other class members. They're great to talk to, critique with, or just hang. I'm invited to their parties. I've learned SO much about writing and publishing. I'll be starting the class for the third time in January. Being scared, or not sure if it would be good or fun, when it began is NOTHING compared to how great it turned out to be. My advice: Just go for it.
dgiirl Posted November 26, 2006 Posted November 26, 2006 Do you like to watch movies? There's a bunch of meet up groups for ppl to get together and watch movies! You could try one of those How about just walking/exploring the city? You dont really need to be hard-core into a specific hobby. Just go to one of the meetups just for the experience of going to one of those meetups. Oh, and dont go back into gaming You want to get outside and socialize, not stay online wasting time away And I read recently an article on internet and depression. There seems to be a link, and from my own experiences, I believe it's true. So stay offline as much as possible
magichands Posted November 27, 2006 Posted November 27, 2006 And I read recently an article on internet and depression. There seems to be a link, Yes, here's the link. http://bullsh*t/ There's nothing wrong with you, the_alchemyst. Remember the Lion King? There's far too much to take in here More to find than can ever be found But the sun rolling high through the sapphire sky Keeps great and small on the endless round
dgiirl Posted November 27, 2006 Posted November 27, 2006 Yes, here's the link. http://bullsh*t/ mc Do you have to be an ass all the time?
IpAncA Posted November 27, 2006 Posted November 27, 2006 I don't know if your in college or not but if so then there's tons of groups out there to join. If not then try volunteering and meeting people that way. Or you can try those groups that you found on-line. Just make sure their not psychos.
Author the_alchemyst Posted November 27, 2006 Author Posted November 27, 2006 Oh, yea I'm in college. Kind of. I'm not going right now, but I'm still in it. If that makes sense. But, anyway, I'm totally dysfunctional in college, so... You know what, guys? I just realized that all I really want is a Nintendo Wii. And these groups. I dunno. Everyone is so enthusiastic. Yuck. mc Do you have to be an ass all the time?
magichands Posted November 27, 2006 Posted November 27, 2006 mc Do you have to be an ass all the time? You know I save my asinine remarks for the people I really care about. I'm sorry.
IpAncA Posted November 28, 2006 Posted November 28, 2006 Oh, yea I'm in college. Kind of. I'm not going right now, but I'm still in it. If that makes sense. But, anyway, I'm totally dysfunctional in college, so... You know what, guys? I just realized that all I really want is a Nintendo Wii. And these groups. I dunno. Everyone is so enthusiastic. Yuck. Well then don't join any groups. No one said you had to. Are you lonely or something?
Author the_alchemyst Posted November 28, 2006 Author Posted November 28, 2006 Are you lonely or something? Uhm . . .
IpAncA Posted November 28, 2006 Posted November 28, 2006 Ok just checking. You seemed like you had your heart set on finding something.
magichands Posted November 28, 2006 Posted November 28, 2006 And these groups. I dunno. How about a writing group? Maybe you can learn about contractions.
Author the_alchemyst Posted November 28, 2006 Author Posted November 28, 2006 Maybe. Thanks for the suggestion. You should sign up, too. There are some great self-improvement groups whose aim is to help reduce the assh*le in you. You should try it.
magichands Posted November 28, 2006 Posted November 28, 2006 You should sign up, too. There are some great self-improvement groups whose aim is to help reduce the assh*le in you. Now why-oh-why would I want to do that?! You can take magichands out of the arsehole, but you can't take the arsehole out of magichands. I just got to be me.
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