lizzieTM Posted November 26, 2006 Posted November 26, 2006 And im still not over it! I was going out with this lad, we hadnt been together long and we never consumated the relationship shall we say, he left me because he said that he was still inlove with his ex and cudnt give me the attention tht i deserved.... i was devastated and i still think about him loads... its like he really got under my skin, so ive been avoiding the places i knew where he wud be. but friday i saw him and he was asking where id been and saying he had really missed seeing me and hugged me so tight which has now made my feelings even more paramount. I just dont know what to do?!? Will it ever go away!?
daphne Posted November 27, 2006 Posted November 27, 2006 Yes it does. But you're going to have to move on and date others if you want it to happen quicker. Seeing him probably made it worse.
snowdiamond Posted November 29, 2006 Posted November 29, 2006 And im still not over it! I was going out with this lad, we hadnt been together long and we never consumated the relationship shall we say, he left me because he said that he was still inlove with his ex and cudnt give me the attention tht i deserved.... i was devastated and i still think about him loads... its like he really got under my skin, so ive been avoiding the places i knew where he wud be. but friday i saw him and he was asking where id been and saying he had really missed seeing me and hugged me so tight which has now made my feelings even more paramount. I just dont know what to do?!? Will it ever go away!? Hi Lizzie, What a jerk of a guy to do this to you. I hope you can move on and soon. Don't get stuck. I understand where you're coming from because the guy I was seeing told me the exact thing about not being able to give me the time that I deserved, because he got his ex pregnant. Unfornately, we still fooled around a bit after he dropped his news, but I couldn't go on with him. I let him go and I'm realizing that I'm better for it. There is someone out there that is willing to give you all the attention, love and affection you could ever dream of having. Trust me, you are the prize! And you are worthy of so much more than what this guy can give or not give you. So hang in there. You're doing good at 5 months! I'm looking forward to being five months and beyond into NC on my part! Snowdiamond
KittenMoon Posted November 29, 2006 Posted November 29, 2006 Yes it does. But you're going to have to move on and date others if you want it to happen quicker. Didn't seem to work for him! Give yourself time to heal and know it might take a lot longer than you expect for it to happen. Try not to feel guilty for still hurting because this will just make it worse. Let yourself feel your pain.
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