mozemate Posted November 26, 2006 Posted November 26, 2006 Well, it's been three weeks since my partner of six years sent me a very silly immature, insecure text message saying "I think we should be mates in the future....." I (And his best mate), think he just sent it because he's feeling really down and wanted to rock my boat. We have had issues but we had sorted them, things were great again, infact he was the one who went through weeks to get me back over the summer. He's childish and I know he has anger issues, hates his job, came off his bike, bashed his face in, had his money stollen bla bla bla...agree, a bad run of things but why say that, completely out of the blue. I know it's hard for him at the mo but he sent me that over three weeks ago...I'm worried about him, but don't play games so so far I've been NC, although I did reply to that text saying "Friends doesn't work for me..."...he didn't reply! I've been fine but cannot believe he just changed his mind over night...literally????? He's not even talking to his best mate! So...will he ever contact me again???? (Long story...very short) Thanks
forgotten1 Posted November 27, 2006 Posted November 27, 2006 First off, Do you want to be with him? I myself am going through some of the same, although it was just a 6 month relationship. I ignored a text, and any contact attempts made. I do want to be with her but I didn't feel it was the right time to be in contact. After talking to her on thanksgiving, I have been messed up the past few days. I wonder myself if the time is going to come where she contacts me again. A part of me tells me she won't, but I'm afraid she won't because I pushed her away already. If it goes much longer I might cave in. I'm not telling you to call him though. Only you know whats truly right. For me I feel like I'm at a point where I have nothing to lose or gain. The call could go either way and I'd deal the best I could. I just need some answers before I completely move on. I dunno if this helped, but good luck!
Author mozemate Posted November 27, 2006 Author Posted November 27, 2006 Thanks so much.... I do want to be with him but I guess I'm scared of rejection, I mean he was the one who said we should just be mates, but I can't believe after all we've been through he would change his mind because he doesn't love me...that's my issue, I know he loves me and so many people have said that he is just lashing out at the ones he loves most.We were fine one day...he has this 'accident' then he says that, just doesn't make sense, would be easier in the long run if he'd just say he didn't love me or something! I will not contact him, else I'll never be sure, but then he's got me back once before....oh god it's so confusing and I really wished he'd contact me.
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