Art_Critic Posted November 27, 2006 Posted November 27, 2006 probably....she was looking for a meal ticket for herself and her kid(s). And we all know that A_c is loaded... ........ In certain ways she was looking for a meal ticket.. but it wasn't the only thing driving her..
alphamale Posted November 27, 2006 Posted November 27, 2006 ..she was a very successful , nice, pretty woman that I'm sure wouldn't be single long.. so what exactly was the problem man? cause she had kids?? she couldn't have been all that if you dumped her
Author luvtoto Posted November 27, 2006 Author Posted November 27, 2006 probably....she was looking for a meal ticket for herself and her kid(s). And we all know that A_c is loaded... You aren't referring to me wanting a meal ticket too are you?
alphamale Posted November 27, 2006 Posted November 27, 2006 You aren't referring to me wanting a meal ticket too are you? no....i refereed to A_C's ex g/f
Art_Critic Posted November 27, 2006 Posted November 27, 2006 so what exactly was the problem man? cause she had kids?? she couldn't have been all that if you dumped her No.. the kids weren't an issue.. I liked her kids.. There were quite a few reasons.. her exH lived right next door.. so he was always over her house.. She was also a bit wacky on her beliefs.. Holistic healing, buddism.. howling at the moon kinda things... No passion was also an issue To sum it up.. no future....
alphamale Posted November 27, 2006 Posted November 27, 2006 her exH lived right next door.. so he was always over her house.. oh yea....big time deal-breaker. She was also a bit wacky on her beliefs.. Holistic healing, buddism.. yep...those artsy-fartsy, astrological/spiritual types are usually nut cases.
Author luvtoto Posted November 27, 2006 Author Posted November 27, 2006 Yes she was... I felt like a turd.. but it was the best thing for both of us.. and I'm sure she moved on...she was a very successful , nice, pretty woman that I'm sure wouldn't be single long.. Well, I have to do something about this problem. S***, I don't want to be single again. He just left. He said he called his parents, and they warned him about the roads being icy in the morning. He decided to leave tonight. As we were saying goodbye. I just was counting the seconds before he walked out the door. It was "affection" time!!! Time for him to hug me three times, tell me to take some vitamin C so I don't catch his cold, told me he'd call me when he gets home tonight, another hug, kiss...... And........the door opens....the door shuts...he's gone. I feel like I have my personal space back!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :bunny: :bunny: Yeah!!!
Art_Critic Posted November 27, 2006 Posted November 27, 2006 yep...those artsy-fartsy, astrological/spiritual types are usually nut cases. One time a week before I broke up with her she mentions how she can feel my energy and how it feels so good to her.... If she was sooo good at reading energy she would've known that my energy for her was gone weeks before..
Author luvtoto Posted November 27, 2006 Author Posted November 27, 2006 yep...those artsy-fartsy, astrological/spiritual types are usually nut cases. You just described my biological mother. Yep, nut case!
alphamale Posted November 27, 2006 Posted November 27, 2006 , told me he'd call me when he gets home tonight, what a fag! the LAST thing i wanna do when i get home is call the woman I just spend the day with. Man, i watch ESPN, take a piss, drink some water and hit the sack...
Art_Critic Posted November 27, 2006 Posted November 27, 2006 Well, I have to do something about this problem. Wow.... reading your post was kinda sad... I feel for you.. and also feel for your BF.. I hope you work something out...
Art_Critic Posted November 27, 2006 Posted November 27, 2006 hit the sack... Don't you mean scratch the nutsack ?
Author luvtoto Posted November 27, 2006 Author Posted November 27, 2006 I feel for you.. and also feel for your BF.. Do you think I am being a turd??
jerbear Posted November 27, 2006 Posted November 27, 2006 I think the loneliness during the last few months of the year makes some people goofy. Wait till the weather gets better, see what the results would be. It seems that he is very much a sheltered and does not really have an identity other than his parents. If the roads were icy, I would have stayed! Granted calling parents and being overly clingy would probably put you on the spot and a "no" may come out. Have you two ever done something as a couple without his parents? Like leave the cell phone off or at home during that time? Having your personal space back is great, now what about tomorrow when the ice clears up? I feel like I have my personal space back!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :bunny: :bunny: Yeah!!! You sound like "good riddence, he's gone!"
Art_Critic Posted November 27, 2006 Posted November 27, 2006 Do you think I am being a turd?? It does kinda sound like you are using him.. but he is an adult... He is googly eyed in love with you ?
Author luvtoto Posted November 27, 2006 Author Posted November 27, 2006 I think the loneliness during the last few months of the year makes some people goofy. Wait till the weather gets better, see what the results would be. It seems that he is very much a sheltered and does not really have an identity other than his parents. If the roads were icy, I would have stayed! Granted calling parents and being overly clingy would probably put you on the spot and a "no" may come out. Have you two ever done something as a couple without his parents? Like leave the cell phone off or at home during that time? Having your personal space back is great, now what about tomorrow when the ice clears up? You sound like "good riddence, he's gone!" No it's not icy out now. But, it will be in the morning when he was going to drive back. Ok, let's back up before you guys make me out to be a man-eater. We have only been dating two months, if that. I stayed at his house on Thursday night & Friday night. I went home on Saturday, he followed me home....stayed over and then tonight he was going to stay over again!! This is all happening too dang fast. I NEVER get any alone time anymore. Not even a smidgen. This little bit of being on the computer tonight, has been my only time alone in the last four days!! I get more alone time at work. I can't handle it anymore. He left tonight saying that he already misses me and can't wait to see me next weekend.
alphamale Posted November 27, 2006 Posted November 27, 2006 I can't handle it anymore. He left tonight saying that he already misses me and can't wait to see me next weekend. nice, clingy, attentive guy always loses the race. too bad for him. all this after 8 wks? that crazy!!
Art_Critic Posted November 27, 2006 Posted November 27, 2006 He left tonight saying that he already misses me and can't wait to see me next weekend. You must give really good head !!
johan Posted November 27, 2006 Posted November 27, 2006 My prediction is that this will all resolve itself. Nothing anyone here says is going to make a difference. You shouldn't feel bad about it, luvtoto. I think this guy has a lot to learn. I don't know whether you'll be around to see it happen. You resent him a lot already.
jerbear Posted November 27, 2006 Posted November 27, 2006 hmm... he sounds clingy... how about this? Once in awhile, go do a girls night out or go on a small family outing. A burger night with you and your kids. It helps maintain your identity and indirectly his. Can even help store up some passion. It can slow things down a little. If he leaves a few messages during your "free" evening, we'll deal with it then.
alphamale Posted November 27, 2006 Posted November 27, 2006 Nothing anyone here says is going to make a difference. . I like to think that if I just make ONE difference in ONE posters life it would have all been worth it.
johan Posted November 27, 2006 Posted November 27, 2006 I like to think that if I just make ONE difference in ONE posters life it would have all been worth it. Yeah. Same here. I had my hopes up on that math question thread, but I think I'm going to have to let that one go.
whichwayisup Posted November 27, 2006 Posted November 27, 2006 I could learn to love him.... If that feeling isn't there, it's not gonna happen no matter how hard you try. I like to think that if I just make ONE difference in ONE posters life it would have all been worth it. Nice one alpha! And I agree with ya 100%!
alphamale Posted November 27, 2006 Posted November 27, 2006 Nice one alpha! And I agree with ya 100%! damn you wench! you're still 2,100+ posts up on me
whichwayisup Posted November 27, 2006 Posted November 27, 2006 damn you wench! you're still 2,100+ posts up on me Check your PM alpha-boy!
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