Bremily Posted November 26, 2006 Posted November 26, 2006 I had dated a woman for about 2 years after I was separated/divorced. We went our separate ways after the 2 years because she desperately wanted children and I decided I did not want any more since i had 2 from my marriage. I have now been dating a woman for about 6 weeks and I find myself constantly thinking about my ex when I am alone. When I am with my gf now, it is amazing and i don't think of the ex. Any explanations or help would be appreciated.
Winfield Posted November 27, 2006 Posted November 27, 2006 I can't see what the problem is - if you were obsessing over your ex-girlfriend when you're with your current girlfriend, then I'd say there's something wrong (ie, you haven't fully gotten over her)...but that's not the case... Heck! There's only one thing for it - date your current girlfriend more! Also, for the times when you're not with her, visit family, friends, etc, which'll help occupy your mind. You've only been dating her for 6 weeks - I admit, it is difficult not to make a comparison with an ex when you date someone new. I suggest you give it some more time, and if things continue to go well for you both, the feelings you had for your ex will soon be forgotten!
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