jon55 Posted November 26, 2006 Posted November 26, 2006 My ex-girlfriend and I broke up about 3 years ago. We're still friends (although we don't hang out much). The break up was more on her side, she said she was just kind of in a "rut" and didn't know why she didn't feel the same way, but Im pretty sure it was because I did some pretty stupid things (like being a little clingy sometimes, and kind of rushing her into the relationship in the beginning) but I realize this now and I know better. I've constantly been trying to get over her, and I've even dated other girls (who I liked and had fun with), but I still find myself missing her alot. Whenever we hang out with our group of friends I can still make her laugh and she's pretty open towards me. But even so, I can't bring myself to want to ask her anything regarding us. Mainly because I think it's gonna screw me over (plus that looks pretty weak when you give a girl all your power, yes?), but at the same time I'm having a hell of a time ignoring how I still feel. It's hard to hang out with her alot of times because I can't keep the butterflies away..
Trialbyfire Posted November 26, 2006 Posted November 26, 2006 Do you really still love her or do you want what you two had? If it's the former, then go for it, with no regrets as the the outcome. The latter is another story and will never happen, even if you get back together with her.
Author jon55 Posted November 26, 2006 Author Posted November 26, 2006 Im pretty sure I do still genuinely miss her, I mean it's been long enough. Im trying my best to keep little contact (or NC other times) with her and then make the time we do have together fun for each other.
Author jon55 Posted December 1, 2006 Author Posted December 1, 2006 Any ideas? Theories or whatever are all welcome. Im just trying to figure this out
Eric102 Posted December 1, 2006 Posted December 1, 2006 Either tell her how you feel. I mean i would stop hanging out with her period since you will never get over her. My ex told me the samething i threw her out slowly. Women can get over easily but for us men it takes a while. Just be strong, and dont' worry about power so much.
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