Angeleyez2583 Posted November 26, 2006 Posted November 26, 2006 it happened again... my fiance and I were engaged... then he decides to go and break my heart... I leave to visit my parents for thanksgiving, then come back.. and he says.."I still love you, but I need to figure things out myself". I hurt him in the past because I cheated on him... it was before I wanted a relationship because I wasn't over my ex... but we were together for a year after that... he didn't want me to go home.. he cried his eyes out when I left.. told me how much he missed me and stuff on the phone.. well i come back and he says... "I can't get over the fact you cheated on me and hurt me in the past... and I still love you... but I need to fig things out for myself..." funny thing is.. he got drunk the night before I came home and made out with a girl...<-- prob has something to do with it i don't understand.. don't understand how he could go and tell me I was his world and loved me so much and we were engaged.... then he pulls the.. I love you and I have stuff to figure out for myself....he even wanted a hug before I left... i said NO are u KIDDING me... the cheating happened before we got really serious... any thoughts on this.. i plan on not calling him ... i also don't want to be on the back burner either... but what the heck should I do because it hurts so bad... (Most of you know this) Anyone been through this before.... all thoughts and advice would mean the world to me right now
magichands Posted November 26, 2006 Posted November 26, 2006 funny thing is.. he got drunk the night before I came home and made out with a girl...<-- prob has something to do with it How do you feel about that? When you're engaged!!?? <-- not meant to bias your answer I'm with you - when you love a person, you don't leave them to "think it over."
hollywood24 Posted November 26, 2006 Posted November 26, 2006 How do you feel about that? When you're engaged!!?? <-- not meant to bias your answer I'm with you - when you love a person, you don't leave them to "think it over." and you also don't make out with someone else.
Trialbyfire Posted November 26, 2006 Posted November 26, 2006 I hurt him in the past because I cheated on him... it was before I wanted a relationship because I wasn't over my ex... funny thing is.. he got drunk the night before I came home and made out with a girl...<-- prob has something to do with it This is the classic payback scenario. If you two do happen to want to hold things together, you've both got a lot of work to do to get beyond the baggage. Good luck.
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