chill chic Posted November 26, 2006 Posted November 26, 2006 I'm sure some of you know about the situation with this guy I'd been seeing. He recently moved away for a job, and told me he had to work on some things, but still wants to keep in touch. I'll call or email him here or there, & he's emailed me a few, but I guess I thought the contact would be constant, at least once a week or so maybe. I understand he needs to work on things, but how much space do I give him. I've came to the conclusion that I'm not going to contact him anymore, by email or phone. He'll probably wonder why, but maybe that's what he needs to "miss me" or whatever the case may be. So..I was wondering until he might contact me, what are some ways I can release my stress & not worry about the relationship so much? I guess I'm having a harder time than I thought I would.
magichands Posted November 26, 2006 Posted November 26, 2006 LoveShack? Maybe not. I like to play with my trunk. The world is an amazing place. It really is. There's a hobby out there with your name on it.
burning 4 revenge Posted November 26, 2006 Posted November 26, 2006 i look at the pills and i look at the picture of mommy and i look at the pills and i look at the picture of mommy and i look at the pills and i look at the picture of mommy and i look at the pills and i look at the picture of mommy
alphamale Posted November 26, 2006 Posted November 26, 2006 i enjoy masturbation to hardcore porn DVDs....whether or not i'm dating someone. actually, I think i do it more when i'm dating someone.
someone2 Posted November 26, 2006 Posted November 26, 2006 Workout? Take a day off and go to a theme park. Leave your phone at home! Go to a day-spa. in summary, do not spend time at home! Just get out!
laRubiaBonita Posted November 26, 2006 Posted November 26, 2006 it's AAALLLLLL about masturbation..... selflove!
magichands Posted November 26, 2006 Posted November 26, 2006 i enjoy masturbation to hardcore porn DVDs....whether or not i'm dating someone. actually, I think i do it more when i'm dating someone. Whatever happened to dinner and a movie?
alphamale Posted November 26, 2006 Posted November 26, 2006 it's AAALLLLLL about masturbation..... selflove! i'll tell you sister, its the BEST.....no stress, totally selfish stimulation, don't have to put on the "act". ohhh yeaaah
laRubiaBonita Posted November 26, 2006 Posted November 26, 2006 Whatever happened to dinner and a movie? waaaay to expensive! what is now? 10.50, if you are not seeing a matinee, a senior, or a student? PLUS dinner! F_ that !
magichands Posted November 26, 2006 Posted November 26, 2006 i look at the pills and Don't you mean Pils? There's nothing worse than self-pity. Well, except the coveting of self-pity, maybe.
alphamale Posted November 26, 2006 Posted November 26, 2006 waaaay to expensive! what is now? 10.50, if you are not seeing a matinee, a senior, or a student? PLUS dinner! F_ that ! LRB....if I take you out for dinner at applebees + a movie on sat nite it will cost me like $25 (minus drinks). I could get a low-end hooker for that much
burning 4 revenge Posted November 26, 2006 Posted November 26, 2006 Don't you mean Pils? I like that too. What constitutes pils exaclty? I know I like Pilsner Urquel.
Author chill chic Posted November 26, 2006 Author Posted November 26, 2006 I wasn't exactly talking about sex/masturbation...I already have that covered lol But I meant emotionally more than anything.
magichands Posted November 26, 2006 Posted November 26, 2006 LRB....if I take you out for dinner at applebees + a movie on sat nite it will cost me like $25 (minus drinks). I could get a low-end hooker for that much The tighter you are, the looser they are.
alphamale Posted November 26, 2006 Posted November 26, 2006 But I meant emotionally more than anything. trust me VIP....when I release a huge load I'm releasing both physically AND emotionally
magichands Posted November 26, 2006 Posted November 26, 2006 But I meant emotionally more than anything. Ice cream. And chocolate. The only two things that have worked for me. Sorry.
magichands Posted November 26, 2006 Posted November 26, 2006 in summary, do not spend time at home! Just get out! Great advice!
laRubiaBonita Posted November 26, 2006 Posted November 26, 2006 Ice cream. And chocolate. The only two things that have worked for me. Sorry. i prefrer bud light and ghanga
Author chill chic Posted November 26, 2006 Author Posted November 26, 2006 trust me VIP....when I release a huge load I'm releasing both physically AND emotionally Uh ok lol I guess that's a fair answer...from you anyway
Kamille Posted November 26, 2006 Posted November 26, 2006 But seriously. V I P, I'm glad you're taking this step. Actually this is the fun part : what is it you want to do? Go rockclimbing? Volunteerwork for toubled teens? Learn the piano? ooh a friend of mine went skydiving when she was trying to forget about guy (turns out he was really easy to forget.) The world is your oyster. Yum, oysters... .
magichands Posted November 26, 2006 Posted November 26, 2006 i prefrer bud light and ghanga That's okay if you're not an alcoholic.
laRubiaBonita Posted November 26, 2006 Posted November 26, 2006 That's okay if you're not an alcoholic. i have heard that is the first step....admitting to it, but i ain't going there.
magichands Posted November 26, 2006 Posted November 26, 2006 Actually this is the fun part : what is it you want to do? Go rockclimbing? Volunteerwork for toubled teens? Learn the piano? Go Kamille!! You can motivate me anywhere, anytime! ooh a friend of mine went skydiving when she was trying to forget about guy (turns out he was really easy to forget.)I hope I can't be replaced by adrenaline and endorphins. Who am I kidding...woo hoo!!!!
Author chill chic Posted November 26, 2006 Author Posted November 26, 2006 But seriously. V I P, I'm glad you're taking this step. Actually this is the fun part : what is it you want to do? Go rockclimbing? Volunteerwork for toubled teens? Learn the piano? ooh a friend of mine went skydiving when she was trying to forget about guy (turns out he was really easy to forget.) The world is your oyster. Yum, oysters... . Thanks Kamille I'm not sure what I want to do yet, and now since it's the winter time here I can't do ALOT outside, but I'll have to think of some things to do in doors. I have a gym at home, so maybe just to get out, I'll join a gym because I like working out. I'm planning on a vacation with my parents, although that's not until April. And maybe my friends will want to go to Vegas again for spring break, yet again that wouldn't be until March, lol. But it would be fun to do something, like volunteer at baby nursery or something. You got me thinking though, thanks
Author chill chic Posted November 26, 2006 Author Posted November 26, 2006 Has anyone else been in this situation before?
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