Peh-Jota Posted November 25, 2006 Posted November 25, 2006 ok here's the story... im 16 and im a junior in high school. i was going to a great high school for 2 years. i had a lot of friends, and i rele liked this girl. then my parents and i had to move. i left the school and all my friends, but i still try to keep in touch. and i talk to her almost every day on i.m. i only found out that she actually liked me (during freshman year) a month or two ago. although i never asked her out cus freshman year i thought she was going out with someone who turned out to be just a close friend, then sophomore year she rele was going out with someone (she broke up with him at the beginning of this school year). i thought that now she still liked me, and only recently did i find out otherwise. now we're just good friends and she can't picture us being anything more because we live so far away from each other (2 1/2 hours). but i still like her. she says having a relationship would be too painful b/c we can't see each other. i thought we did have something, so it has been painful for me, until she told me how i would be ok, because im me. i took it to heart and was happier than i've ever been in the last 3 months b/c then i still thought she liked me. and its rele annoying that i had to leave b/c my parents and i are no better off now than we were before; in fact, i feel worse off. if anyone has any advice on what i could do or say, plz tell me. i miss her so much and just wish we could have something between us.
Guest Posted December 2, 2006 Posted December 2, 2006 ooh, this is a hard one. But I'm going to be brutally honest... If you're 16 and you just happened to get this idea now, I say you really wait on it for a few weeks or months. I remember when I was 16, I thought me and this girl were really serious, until she just ended it. And we were serious, I'm talking poetry of romeo-juliet proportions here. However, just because you're young doesn't mean your feelings aren't true or rhat they don't count. If you still feel strongly about this after quite sometime, then it's probably serious enough to consider. But realize, that you still cannot know exactly what you're getting into because you never know what might change, with you or with her. Also being 16, you should be able to drive very soon. If I was your parents, I don't know how much I would like the idea, but you know with some practice, it may be feasible. Good Luck!
Author Peh-Jota Posted December 2, 2006 Author Posted December 2, 2006 i've liked her since freshman year, but like i said, i thought she was going out with someone, then sophomore year, she really was. if all goes as planned, i'll be driving within a month or so, and unaccompanied next summer. and yeah, my mom doesn't want me driving alone on highways, but eventually im gonna have to. i can't spend my whole life only driving back roads. and thursday night, she told me she (and 2 other girls) has a crush on a senior, cus he's "sweet and hot". she apologized because i probably didn't want to hear about it. she was right.
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