higherground5 Posted November 25, 2006 Posted November 25, 2006 So my girlfriend has a long time friend; she's been friends with this guy since high school, and now she's in her mid-twenties. During the past 3-5 years they both had a bf/gf and when my girl became single she jumped right into the relationship she is in now with me. Within a couple of months into our relationship, her guy friend broke it off with his girlfriend. With that said, I lately have noticed that she has been asking him to hang out. One time for dinner (they were the only two people, but it didn't happen) and another time for a get together on a friday night (they were a bunch of peeps). So as she tells me he is just a friend and nothing else, I get the feeling that he's trying to move in on her. Why? Because he took the initiative to ask her out for drinks one night(even though she asked me for permission to go out with him), and she's asked him twice to hang out. Do I have reason to believe that something is going on here? What should I do to avoid losing my girl? I haven't brought up anything that should suggest signs of jealousy or whatever, but I'm starting to feel concerned (not sure if it's in my head). Please help. Forbin.
socialight Posted November 25, 2006 Posted November 25, 2006 my guess is yes, yes, and h*ll yes. I would closely monitor the passion and intimacy in your relationship, and see if she starts spending less time with you and more with him. Be very much on guard.
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