monkgirl Posted November 25, 2006 Posted November 25, 2006 i met a banker called D irish. i liked him first time met when back to april. i was in the middle of divorce. so when he mentioned came to see me. i said no... but i need to sort myself out then i pass by london. he was v nice to me and then i moved to london. we back in touch again we met for dinner he said i can stay overnight in his i said ... am ok.. just went home oh. he showed me his arts collection==porn flower arts... showed me which is mouth which is cock( that picture is about at least 10K each) then.. afterwards. he called me and txted me saying he has meeting or friends nearby me. he pass by me and want to say hi but i was busy. so i didn’t pay much attention to him until last time he asked me out really keen. Booked dinner and theatre and he holds my hand in theatre and kissed me afterwards his hand doesn’t go everywhere which is sweet but then afterwards he cooled down. hardly asked me out again i felt insecure as he kissed me then what? never asked me out again so i asked him out . but he seems never respond to my txt 's topic about i like him. He seems bit over focus on sex joke and then i said i wanna see u . he said he is home with parenst. will fly back sunday night then work monday tuesday fly away holiday from wednesday til sunday i txted d that i liked his kiss and that night so innocent and remind me of high school he said : not that innocent so then i asked... do u want a f*** buddie? he said : he doesnot know what he wants. he never had f*** buddy before i said me neither he said why u ask? i said. testing water. and trying to figure out what he wants he said we should try and then he droved to see me. i did all action. Wooed him : and we txting each other monday after wards and tuesday i send one txt: do u think is there only lust between us? wed. no reply thursday. i send a final txt :'' i got impression that we want different things. i told u i like u but u never respond to this subject and we been busy cyber sex and sex which i am not sure u want to go far beyond that ==casual sex. maybe u really don’t know what u want. when u find out let me know. by then. i don’t like to be in a passive un-clarified position. bye for now. enjoy holiday he replied 2 days later Thanks for ur txt. i was not v comfortable the other evening when i saw u . maybe as u likeed me. i like you too but i feel i was taking adv of u . maybe it just tells me that am not ready even now for a relationship. i am in a mess and sorry drag u in.
Xhie Posted November 25, 2006 Posted November 25, 2006 I don't really understand what your question is. Do you want to know what your next move should be to get this man? Or you you want to know if he wants to be with you, and if so in what sense? Umm... I don't know a nice way to say this so I will just tell you: Homeboy was looking to bang a stripper, you let him, men dont really go out and try to marry strippers. He does not want to be with you and all that bs texting is just a way to either figure out how to hit it again or just get you to leave. Its the reality of your business. More importantly, why are you doing this to yourself? Go work someplace else, nothing is worth turning yourself into a piece of meat like this. None of these men really want to be with you. If they tell you they do they are lying. You will not meet decent men doing what your doing. If you like being treated like this, by all means, keep doing it, but your post shows that you do not.
KnowHowLoveFeels Posted November 25, 2006 Posted November 25, 2006 Are you sure he is NOT married?? It sounds like he is back with his W now, especially during the holidays. Please take care of yourself and don't get involved with him any more. He sounds like a player.
Guest Posted November 25, 2006 Posted November 25, 2006 i met a banker called D irish. i liked him first time met when back to april. i was in the middle of divorce. so when he mentioned came to see me. i said no... but i need to sort myself out then i pass by london. he was v nice to me and then i moved to london. we back in touch again we met for dinner he said i can stay overnight in his i said ... am ok.. just went home oh. he showed me his arts collection==porn flower arts... showed me which is mouth which is cock( that picture is about at least 10K each) then.. afterwards. he called me and txted me saying he has meeting or friends nearby me. he pass by me and want to say hi but i was busy. so i didn’t pay much attention to him until last time he asked me out really keen. Booked dinner and theatre and he holds my hand in theatre and kissed me afterwards his hand doesn’t go everywhere which is sweet but then afterwards he cooled down. hardly asked me out again i felt insecure as he kissed me then what? never asked me out again so i asked him out . but he seems never respond to my txt 's topic about i like him. He seems bit over focus on sex joke and then i said i wanna see u . he said he is home with parenst. will fly back sunday night then work monday tuesday fly away holiday from wednesday til sunday i txted d that i liked his kiss and that night so innocent and remind me of high school he said : not that innocent so then i asked... do u want a f*** buddie? he said : he doesnot know what he wants. he never had f*** buddy before i said me neither he said why u ask? i said. testing water. and trying to figure out what he wants he said we should try and then he droved to see me. i did all action. Wooed him : and we txting each other monday after wards and tuesday i send one txt: do u think is there only lust between us? wed. no reply thursday. i send a final txt :'' i got impression that we want different things. i told u i like u but u never respond to this subject and we been busy cyber sex and sex which i am not sure u want to go far beyond that ==casual sex. maybe u really don’t know what u want. when u find out let me know. by then. i don’t like to be in a passive un-clarified position. bye for now. enjoy holiday he replied 2 days later Thanks for ur txt. i was not v comfortable the other evening when i saw u . maybe as u likeed me. i like you too but i feel i was taking adv of u . maybe it just tells me that am not ready even now for a relationship. i am in a mess and sorry drag u in. So what's the question? It seems done. You tried to let him know how you felt (maybe going too far) and he responded. Time to move on, right?
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