richeal Posted November 25, 2006 Posted November 25, 2006 i m worried plz help me. i can't cope with a guy who has a gf and tells me that he's interested in me too. we live far away. he's in UK, I'm in Asian country. he's a liar . he told me that he'll leave his gf but still now he's hanging around with her. and he's asked me me to marry him. all will b fine. plz do advise me.
amaysngrace Posted November 25, 2006 Posted November 25, 2006 I would be worried too if the guy who wants to marry me had another girlfriend. Is that what you're saying? Or are they just friends and she's a girl? I'm confused.
richeal Posted November 26, 2006 Posted November 26, 2006 ok i tell u the whole story. i live in India n here u know about the culture. v r not so open to the opposite sex.he is my fiance' living in UK according to their style. she's his gf. u know they r so close to each other. when he was here, in my place she used to call him telling him that she was missing him.and all the other stuff i don't like to remember. it makes me v. mad.now i don't know wat to do? he will not breakup with her. and want to live with me as his wife also.. he's not contacted me for the last 2 months. i asked him to end the relationship with me.but he's not announced if he has ended the engagement or not ?i can't bear this . that he has sexual relations with other women.i don't know wat to do ?plz tell me your feeling about this. and he always used to tell me that he loved me so much he can't live without me. and is not ready to leave his gf also .he didn't tell me about his gf . htis is another guy who told me this.i can;t disclose his(guy) name to him ( fiance'). i m ina fix. please help me . guys also tell me about your psyche living in the west.i don't trust him now whatever he says.help me discover what is going on! thanks.
Guest Posted December 1, 2006 Posted December 1, 2006 dont u have this much sense also he is misusing u ? Y dont u dump him ? If he truly loved u then he wouldnt have been with gf . He is just making promises he aint acting upon it . Grow up! Live 4 urself also ! U cant keep hurting urself like this. ok i tell u the whole story. i live in India n here u know about the culture. v r not so open to the opposite sex.he is my fiance' living in UK according to their style. she's his gf. u know they r so close to each other. when he was here, in my place she used to call him telling him that she was missing him.and all the other stuff i don't like to remember. it makes me v. mad.now i don't know wat to do? he will not breakup with her. and want to live with me as his wife also.. he's not contacted me for the last 2 months. i asked him to end the relationship with me.but he's not announced if he has ended the engagement or not ?i can't bear this . that he has sexual relations with other women.i don't know wat to do ?plz tell me your feeling about this. and he always used to tell me that he loved me so much he can't live without me. and is not ready to leave his gf also .he didn't tell me about his gf . htis is another guy who told me this.i can;t disclose his(guy) name to him ( fiance'). i m ina fix. please help me . guys also tell me about your psyche living in the west.i don't trust him now whatever he says.help me discover what is going on! thanks.
richeal Posted December 7, 2006 Posted December 7, 2006 dont u have this much sense also he is misusing u ? Y dont u dump him ? If he truly loved u then he wouldnt have been with gf . He is just making promises he aint acting upon it . Grow up! Live 4 urself also ! U cant keep hurting urself like this. i m very much thankful to you Guest. i was thinking the same for 2 months. but couldnot decide wat to do. was it just my feeling or had i been so possessive. but you have clearly solved this.now he is coming here,india to meet me and again tell me so many lies about how much he missed me. i know all will be rubbish. thnx.
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