Vertex Posted November 25, 2006 Posted November 25, 2006 I don't know if many of you remember me. I once went out with this girl who lived about an hour from me at another college, and things had gone downhill. I wasted a lot of money, tolerated a lack of affection and love, and found myself fighting tooth and nail for an ounce of appreciation or respect, or even reciprocation. The relationship exploded and I fell into a very lonely moment in life. It's been about half a year later, and I've found an amazing new girlfriend. The interesting thing is that it's like we skipped the rose-tinted glasses stage where you view each other as perfect beings. We recognize each other's flaws, but we've had enough relationships to understand what's important, and we communicate very well. Have you ever stepped into a wonderful relationship, amazed at how much better it was than your last? For example, I used to have to beg my ex-girlfriend for certain things sexually, but my girlfriend now is almost hornier than *I* am, and she's always willing to do anything and everything. Her past lovers have been somewhat abusive and selfish -- so, as can be expected, she had no idea what an orgasm felt like. I worked with her until she experienced one, and now she can't get enough of them. It's cute, really. She'll be tugging at my shoulder, giving me this seductive-yet-puppy-dog look because she wants to go back to my room to get busy, haha. This girl is smoking hot too... she's a model. She's said she's never felt so much love for someone before, which makes me feel wonderful. Despite the absurd amount of time spent together, we haven't become sick of each other at all, which is what happens to most people. We laugh and enjoy each other's company, and frequently go places and hang out with friends. Furthermore, we have many interests in common which allows for tons of interesting conversations. I'm just so glad to have found this beautiful, intelligent, loving girl. I was miserable after my last breakup, but now I am grateful that I had the experience. I learned what not to put up with. And, it allowed me to meet someone new. I'm in a very happy point in life now when I used to feel quite suicidal and hopeless. I guess I just want to say to everyone... realize what you want and what your needs are. Don't allow someone to breach or impede your core values, and don't put up with abuse or disrespect. As long as you can hold up this filter, if you will, eventually something great will pass right on through.
someone2 Posted November 25, 2006 Posted November 25, 2006 YAY for you. Congratulations There is always light at the end of the tunnel
Road Rage Posted November 25, 2006 Posted November 25, 2006 I could use a smoking hot model myself right now. However my tunnel seems really long and I still don`t seem to see the light at the end of it.
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