Guest Posted November 25, 2006 Posted November 25, 2006 Okay ladies, help me out here: I met a woman earlier this summer during a class who I found attractive but didn't think much of it until about 3 weeks ago when I felt like I got some sort of "sign" from her. It just hit me flat in the face that I wanted to ask her out. So I did. Unfortuately she had to cancel the date because she had to cover for someone at her work that did not come in, which I totally beleived, after all, a job is important, especially to college students that have little or no money! She called me from work that night and told me that she wanted to reschedule, that's right, she wants to reschedule, so far we have discussed next week since this being a holiday weekend we are with our families. She also told me on the phone that she was not blowing me off whatsoever so that eased my worries. For a follow up I called her on tuesday before break just to talk to her before t-day. It was a nice conversation. She was actually sleeping when I called. I mean, she could have not answered the phone and kept sleeping but she answered. I asked her if I could call her this weekend and she said yes. So that is good. Should I call her? Or should I play the game?? I am looking forward to going out with her because I have been out of the game for a long time. I really don't know any history on this woman. And I really don't want to. Which is making it that much more interesting. All I know is that she is nice and seems to be interested in me. So, I guess my question is, how am I doing so far? I know I haven't even got out with her yet but I'm sure that is going to happen. I tend to overanalyze I guess. All I know for sure is that I want to get to know her better and see where things go. That's all.
Guest Posted November 25, 2006 Posted November 25, 2006 your doing fine and u should definitely call her on the w/e because you've said u will and if u don't im guessing she wont be too impressed. keep treating her the way you are and see how the dates go and get to know her
Guest Posted January 2, 2007 Posted January 2, 2007 Unfortuately she had to cancel the date because she had to cover for someone at her work that did not come in, which I totally beleived, after all, a job is important, especially to college students that have little or no money! She called me from work that night and told me that she wanted to reschedule, that's right, she wants to reschedule, so far we have discussed next week since this being a holiday weekend we are with our families. She also told me on the phone that she was not blowing me off whatsoever so that eased my worries. When a woman "reschedule" on a day when she clearly said she's available means she's not interested in you. If she was interested in you she would make the time by "reschedule" to a another date instead of saying "reschedule" when she call you. What you should do is call her on a Tuesday and ask her out on a Sunday just to see what happens, but what you'll probably get from her is she'll say she made other plans or she'll accept the date and then between the days upto the date you'll get a call from her saying she can't make and have to "reschedule". Let her go, she not interested in you, so go out and find someone who can make the time for you (and not reschedule).
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