gonetildecember Posted November 25, 2006 Posted November 25, 2006 A friend of mine is going thru this situation with a guy, so I told her i'd post it to see if you guys had any feedback for her. I officially met R in September at GTD's house, before this I had a huge crush on him, but we had never really talk (we go to the same college)... So anyways, he casually mentionned during the night that we should chill more..and put his number in my phone ... (He had gotten my number from GTD a few days before and called and asked if I was going to be at her house that night) So for the following week he called everyday and we basically got to know each other on the phone, I drove him home one day after school and the next I went to his house to watch a movie...then the next day nothing, it was like he went MIA. Every weekend we play poker at GTD's house, and he called her to ask if he could come and if I was going to be there.. she said yes to both and he ended up coming...he acted cool around me but we didnt really get any alone time. He called another once that week and asked if we could go see a movie, and I said.. i haven't talked to u in a while.. but maybe this weekend or something.. so Friday he called me and asked to go to the movies, then called GTD and invited her and brought a friend as well.. (NOTE.. he always calls GTD to set up dates/meetings...rarely me) at the movies he was really affectionate and i thought things were cool.. So basically he calls like once a week and asks if i can chill, sometimes i say i can't cuz im working or have to study.... and then he'll be like i miss you... i rarely call because when I did he either wouldn't answer or would say he would call me back and wouldn't for days... I don't know what to do, I don't think he's serious and either want to find a way to get him to get serious or leave me alone. We've never talked about feelings .. but we've done physical stuff..not sex, hung out quite a few times.. alone and with friends... but i'm bothered by the fact that he doesn't call for like a week and expects me to be okay with that GTD thinks he's just immature and knows he's never had a serious girlfriend... but i like him and want to know how i can make this work. Any ideas on what might be going on with him, and how i can maybe change things or move on and find some closure?
Author gonetildecember Posted November 25, 2006 Author Posted November 25, 2006 He called GTD again tonight and asked her to come rolleblading.. and bring friends... but didn't specifically mention me.
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