chill chic Posted November 25, 2006 Posted November 25, 2006 I hinted to a guy that I've been seeing, through an email that I have a problem with ephedrine from modeling. I told him to let me know when a good time would be for him & I to talk about it. What if I don't hear back from him, what would be the reason? Do guys shy away from girls with such a problem? Should I tell him later on if he doesn't that I'll handle it fine on my own? Did I make a big mistake??
someone2 Posted November 25, 2006 Posted November 25, 2006 I now remember your earlier post about hesitating to tell him. I see you finally decided to do it. This is one of the moments in life when we press "Submit" and then one second later start to think "Holy crap, what did I just do!!", right? But honestly, I don't think it is a big deal. If he likes you, it will be totally nothing. It is not like you are on cocaine or something. This is definitely not a big deal. So, just relax. You haven't made any mistake. Being honest is a good thing
Author chill chic Posted November 25, 2006 Author Posted November 25, 2006 I now remember your earlier post about hesitating to tell him. I see you finally decided to do it. This is one of the moments in life when we press "Submit" and then one second later start to think "Holy crap, what did I just do!!", right? But honestly, I don't think it is a big deal. If he likes you, it will be totally nothing. It is not like you are on cocaine or something. This is definitely not a big deal. So, just relax. You haven't made any mistake. Being honest is a good thing So he won't think "oh great, she has (baggage)?" That's what I was afraid of. Thanks for your support, I really appreciate it
whichwayisup Posted November 25, 2006 Posted November 25, 2006 I think many people, depending on age, have baggage! As we get older it seems we have more sheeyt. It's just life! So, if he can't deal with you being honest, he's not worthy of your time and definately not relationship material.
Author chill chic Posted November 25, 2006 Author Posted November 25, 2006 I think many people, depending on age, have baggage! As we get older it seems we have more sheeyt. It's just life! So, if he can't deal with you being honest, he's not worthy of your time and definately not relationship material. that's a good point
Kamille Posted November 25, 2006 Posted November 25, 2006 Honey, I think you worry too much about what he thinks. This not only from this post but from all the others you've posted. Be yourself. With him. With others. You sound like such a caring person! Believe in yourself.
magichands Posted November 25, 2006 Posted November 25, 2006 Be yourself. With him. With others. You sound like such a caring person! Believe in yourself. Kamille knows what she's talking about. It's not easy to lay it on the line - to make yourself vulnerable. But you did good. He'll see that you have your problem under control, and that you're just after a little support and understanding. Aren't we all.
Touche Posted November 25, 2006 Posted November 25, 2006 Kamille knows what she's talking about. It's not easy to lay it on the line - to make yourself vulnerable. But you did good. He'll see that you have your problem under control, and that you're just after a little support and understanding. Aren't we all. No not really. We're not all after a little support and understanding. Some of us expect WAY more!
alphamale Posted November 25, 2006 Posted November 25, 2006 Do guys shy away from girls with such a problem? No we generally don't....now if you had a meth problem it may be a different story. I personally like my women with teeth.
Author chill chic Posted November 25, 2006 Author Posted November 25, 2006 Kamille knows what she's talking about. It's not easy to lay it on the line - to make yourself vulnerable. But you did good. He'll see that you have your problem under control, and that you're just after a little support and understanding. Aren't we all. it was just a big step for me to actually tell him, someone I care about, especially a guy, so it's new to me, at least with him anyway. thanks though, it makes me feel better
Author chill chic Posted November 25, 2006 Author Posted November 25, 2006 No we generally don't....now if you had a meth problem it may be a different story. I personally like my women with teeth. lol no nothing like that I think my dentist would've killed me if that was the case
Author chill chic Posted November 25, 2006 Author Posted November 25, 2006 No we generally don't....now if you had a meth problem it may be a different story. I personally like my women with teeth. you always have the funniest avatars
alphamale Posted November 25, 2006 Posted November 25, 2006 you always have the funniest avatars it takes alot of work. and my avvie always shows my mood.
Author chill chic Posted November 25, 2006 Author Posted November 25, 2006 Honey, I think you worry too much about what he thinks. This not only from this post but from all the others you've posted. Be yourself. With him. With others. You sound like such a caring person! Believe in yourself. that's really good advice, and you're right I do worry too much of what he might think. I don't know why that is, but I need to chill out & take a breather from everything & let nature take it's course. But I like being me, and I wouldn't want to change that for anyone, so I have to remember that
Author chill chic Posted November 25, 2006 Author Posted November 25, 2006 it takes alot of work. and my avvie always shows my mood. lol I see
magichands Posted November 25, 2006 Posted November 25, 2006 Some of us expect WAY more! I'm not sure you have the stamina for that.
Touche Posted November 25, 2006 Posted November 25, 2006 I'm not sure you have the stamina for that. Really? You think not?
Guest Posted November 25, 2006 Posted November 25, 2006 it takes alot of work. and my avvie always shows my mood. i have a strange online crush on u. i know i sound desperate but u just seem so manly. im 14 almost 15. how old r u
alphamale Posted November 26, 2006 Posted November 26, 2006 i have a strange online crush on u. i know i sound desperate but u just seem so manly. im 14 almost 15. how old r u send me an email in 4 years
whichwayisup Posted November 26, 2006 Posted November 26, 2006 i have a strange online crush on u. i know i sound desperate but u just seem so manly. im 14 almost 15. how old r u This is the cutest thing, ever! Awwwwwww!
alphamale Posted November 26, 2006 Posted November 26, 2006 This is the cutest thing, ever! Awwwwwww! are u sure that wasn't you WWIU?? cause i've heard some of the rumours about what you want to do to me
magichands Posted November 26, 2006 Posted November 26, 2006 are u sure that wasn't you WWIU?? cause i've heard some of the rumours about what you want to do to me Me too. Dutch ovens...
whichwayisup Posted November 26, 2006 Posted November 26, 2006 are u sure that wasn't you WWIU?? cause i've heard some of the rumours about what you want to do to me Yeah, it's me, the jig is up. And all those rumours are true as well. Oh I actually heard through the grapevine that you wanted your nipples tweaked!
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