Guest Posted November 25, 2006 Posted November 25, 2006 Hello all, I have a situation here I fell in love in a girl during high school but we were never together as she has this boyfriend for something like 7 years now ... so I never had the guts the tell her how I feel ... I guess I was waiting for that moment when they break up or something.. as you can guess they never broke up and I think I still have some pretty strong feelings for her. I was always a "good friend on the side" and she has always liked me, we keep in touch, exchange holidays cards and stuff... you know the drill... I am really sick of this whole being nice to each other and I think I am ready to tell her what I feel after all those years!! But hey folks, do not get me wrong. I wasn't just waiting all those years to tell her something now... I was in two relationships since high school, of which one was long, I was even engaged in the last one but it fell apart. I was devastated for a while ... very recently I realized one thing. For all those years I tried to forget that girl from high school but looking around for possibilities to fall in love again in somebody else. I worked for a while, I was in love, but then there was always something wrong in my relationships later along the way. Maybe it's time to try to talk to that girl, should I tell her the truth how I feel. Do you think it's ethical for me to do that? She has been with her boyfriend for so many years? Is it the right thing to do? Very deeply I believe she is waiting for someone like me to make a first step like I want to make and maybe she is just afraid to lose what she has right now? I'm just afraid to lose a friend is she reacts bad to this. Should I speak to her or write? (we live quite far from each other right now) Pls, tell me what you guys think about all of this? What should I do? Pls express your opinions, thank you. Kurt
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