ICS Posted November 24, 2006 Posted November 24, 2006 I broke up with my ex-girlfriend of 5 years almost two months ago. In the past five years I have tried to discuss issues I had with her..to no avail, because everytime she tells me it's because I am controlling, but this was not the case. I decided that since we cannot even have any resolution to our problems, I should move on-for real this time. Since the breakup, she has messaged me a few times and I have seen her 2 to 3 times. However, the last time I saw her, I told her that I cannot be in her life anymore, because we just make each other miserable. On top of that, she is already dating a new guy, which she told me she had already kissed after the second date. As much as I want to be a friend in her life, it's difficult.. and all the more difficult because she has moved on from me only 2 months after the breakup (dating a new guy), while I am still trying to recover from the end of the relationship, and did not even entertain the thought of dating right now.. only looking for new friends. I wouldnt have thought twice about being with her, I really loved her, but after countless times of discussing our issues and having her turn her head, I figured enough was enough. A few days ago I told her that it'll be better for both of us to go complete NC, but ever since then, she has become more clingy than before, and messaging me on the phone in desperation all the time. I don't want to talk to her and lead her into thinking that we could still have a relationship/be friends, but I also don't want her to be unhappy as a result of my decision. Even though I don't intend to talk to her or see her again, I'll still send her the occasional birthday card. What should I do about the situation?
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