IpAncA Posted November 27, 2006 Posted November 27, 2006 You probably don't want to hear this but all I can say is that your being paranoid. Stop worrying and just let it play out. From what you said he said about things, sounds like he's telling the truth. About the whole calling thing, other people here have given you good advice. Relax and go do something.
whichwayisup Posted November 27, 2006 Posted November 27, 2006 Let him contact you. He's busy with family, work and whatever else is going on in his life. And don't worry, he's not just going to disappear out of your life! So put those thoughts out of your head. The key right now is, YOU!! Keep busier, have fun with friends, family etc... Don't "wait" for him by the phone so to speak. If he calls, great! If not, well, he will eventually. It just seems he is putting his needs first, which is OK, but at the same time I can understand that it's make you question whether or not he's really into you or slowly giving you some hints that he isn't that sure either... "we should hang out again soon", he's so "busy.", Anyway, he said he'd see what he got accomplished work-wise this weekend and "hopefully we can hang out early next week" (meaning what, Monday? Tuesday? Wednesday? ???) and that we'd "chat later and figure something out..." Let him call/chase you.
Green Posted November 27, 2006 Posted November 27, 2006 WOAH. Actually, the subject of taking time to smell the roses came up while he was talking about that same movie! He said it was good for reminding him to enjoy the simple things in life, like spending time with friends and family. I haven't seen it, but maybe I should...... ha! I'll wait until tomorrow to call, but I'll be really bummed if I even have to. If I were in your situation I would look for some one more available, in the long run its lonlier being with a guy like this then alone. You should have a gauranteed once a week date atleast, and he should know better then to be so alouf.
Pyro Posted November 27, 2006 Posted November 27, 2006 He called. Yay. And you were worried over nothing. Congrats. If you are serious about being with him, just get use to this. You can't expect to see him on a daily basis, or hear from him as much as you would like to. He has quite a full plate in front of him.
Author Star Gazer Posted November 27, 2006 Author Posted November 27, 2006 And you were worried over nothing. Congrats. If you are serious about being with him, just get use to this. You can't expect to see him on a daily basis, or hear from him as much as you would like to. He has quite a full plate in front of him. I know, I know. Grr. But from what I can tell, he's just sooo worth it.
Pyro Posted November 27, 2006 Posted November 27, 2006 I know, I know. Grr. But from what I can tell, he's just sooo worth it. Well I would hope that if he is such a great guy, than he will find a way to make time for you and him, aside from his schedule.
IpAncA Posted November 27, 2006 Posted November 27, 2006 He called. Yay. See you were just being paranoid. Glad that he called .
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