Chai Posted November 24, 2006 Posted November 24, 2006 I moved to Scotland from New York 6 mths ago and didn't know anybody...I met him at work. He is also from the States. We work together, got along really well...joked around a lot, went for coffee...it was great. I started to ask myself whether or not I thought of him as more than a friend - nothing has happened between us. I know he is married and he has two beautiful daughters. I've read many of forums and the feedbacks...and I know what is morally right and what I should do. And besides,who am I to say that he is even attracted to me. I actually made a decision last week to leave my job and return to NY... I haven't told told him yet. And I wasn't planning on telling him either. I was thinking of going out for coffee with him one last time before I leave...on the 14th of December...and wishing him a Merry Christmas. I guess deep down inside, I hope that he would miss me. But, at the same time...I want him to be faithful to his wife.
whichwayisup Posted November 24, 2006 Posted November 24, 2006 I was thinking of going out for coffee with him one last time before I leave...on the 14th of December...and wishing him a Merry Christmas. No, don't do that. Nothing has happened so far so keep it that way. He may miss the friendship abit, but don't read anymore into it and don't hope for it to be more than that.
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