oyster Posted November 23, 2006 Posted November 23, 2006 Having experience a few off the wall relationship, I think when I will get married, I will get a Tattoo wedding band for me and my wife. Why? As a man, I don't like rings as I work on cars and other things. This would tell other Single woman that I am NOT available. Same thing goes to my wife, just in case she omits to wear her ring. This should avoid lots of the Other Woman / Other Man issues.
Pyro Posted November 23, 2006 Posted November 23, 2006 Having experience a few off the wall relationship, I think when I will get married, I will get a Tattoo wedding band for me and my wife. Why? As a man, I don't like rings as I work on cars and other things. This would tell other Single woman that I am NOT available. Same thing goes to my wife, just in case she omits to wear her ring. This should avoid lots of the Other Woman / Other Man issues. Nothing in life is a guarantee. Just because men and women are married, it doesn't mean that they will cheat on their spouse, ring or no ring on.
whichwayisup Posted November 23, 2006 Posted November 23, 2006 This would tell other Single woman that I am NOT available. What's wrong with just saying "I'm married" when one is being hit on. This should avoid lots of the Other Woman / Other Man issues. Whether or not you or your wife has a tattoo wedding band, it's not going to stop either of you from cheating. Cheating is a choice - So as long as you both choose not to, then there's nothing to worry about.
TYASAFAHICSI Posted November 23, 2006 Posted November 23, 2006 Didn't Tommy Lee and Pam Anderson do that? Wait...are you.....????
Romeo Must Die Posted November 24, 2006 Posted November 24, 2006 A wedding ring will not protect you from infidelity. To a honorable person, a wedding ring means the person wearing it is spoken for, but then again, there are always dishonorable people out there that would just see it as an opportunity. My husbands xOW liked to think our marriage was in name only and planned to be married to Romeo as soon as I was out of the picture.
Guest Posted November 24, 2006 Posted November 24, 2006 Wearing big bright gold wedding bands doesn't stop infidelity. You can't tattoo someone's brain, and that's the only thing that stops infidelity - or doesn't. People who want to cheat with married people don't care that the married ones are married. You see it all the time if you read the adultery forum. There are some married people who lie and hide the marriage, but usually that's not the case.
Author oyster Posted November 24, 2006 Author Posted November 24, 2006 My husbands xOW liked to think our marriage was in name only and planned to be married to Romeo as soon as I was out of the picture. now this explains your user name:D
CrushedOrgans Posted November 24, 2006 Posted November 24, 2006 and what's to stop a cheater from saying "i'm not married anymore, i just haven't had the very painful removal of the tatoo just yet." reasonable enough, i think. if someone is going to cheat, no outside object or idea is going to stop it.
alphamale Posted November 24, 2006 Posted November 24, 2006 This should avoid lots of the Other Woman / Other Man issues. Instead of getting a real live wife why not just get a tattooed wife? That will save you even more money and potential heartache.
GirlFromOz Posted November 28, 2006 Posted November 28, 2006 From my experience, any sort of wedding ring seems to be like a red rag to a bull for many single women (and possibly men?). Who knows - maybe they see it as a challenge or maybe pinching someone else's man satisfies their competitive streak. Anyway, I think your best bet is to not wear a wedding band at all & to not mention to anyone that you are married!
jmargel Posted November 28, 2006 Posted November 28, 2006 I have to say since I got married I have been hit on more than I was single.. lol There was even a time when two chicks hung around me & my wife at a bar, and they waited until she went to the bathroom to make their move. Those women owe no loyalty to my wife, so they could careless, and in fact if they got something out of it, it would be an ego boost to them. Women love challenges, as for men.. They'll get p*ssy where-ever it's available (at least to most men). So it really doesn't matter if you have the ring tattooed or not. Its upto your spouse to tell them they are married & not interested. If they don't, then you have other problems to worry about.
Author oyster Posted November 28, 2006 Author Posted November 28, 2006 Instead of getting a real live wife why not just get a tattooed wife? That will save you even more money and potential heartache. good point tattooed wife would not talk back:D
Adunaphel Posted November 28, 2006 Posted November 28, 2006 Having experience a few off the wall relationship, I think when I will get married, I will get a Tattoo wedding band for me and my wife. Why? As a man, I don't like rings as I work on cars and other things. This would tell other Single woman that I am NOT available. Same thing goes to my wife, just in case she omits to wear her ring. This should avoid lots of the Other Woman / Other Man issues. In most cases it is the married guy pursuing single women. Not the opposite. (Just because it's usually guys pursuing gals, not because men cheat more). I agree that seeing the tattoo would be useful to put some women on guard. So it would prevent all those affairs that starts because the single person finds himself or herself attracted to the married one *before* he/she finds out it's not available. But like Crushed Organs said, it's easy to lie about a tattooed ring. It all depends on how gullible the single person is. On the opacity level of the infamous rose tinted glasses. Also, some person would be offended by the request of wearing a tattooed ring. ("Can't you really trust me to be upfront with single people about being married?"). If you are not a cheater, you need no tattooed ring. If you consider yourself capable of cheating if the occasion presents itself (many people are like this, and it takes a very strong person to admit such a thing to himself), though, it could be a good idea. If you are doing it to give extra reassurance to your wife, it's a lovely thing to do!
alphamale Posted November 28, 2006 Posted November 28, 2006 In most cases it is the married guy pursuing single women. Not the opposite. (Just because it's usually guys pursuing gals, not because men cheat more). WTF you talking about ADUNAPEHL??? MM pursues single woman cause SHE LETS HIM PURSUE....in the end it is women who choose the man they want. The man chasing the woman is an illusion.
Art_Critic Posted November 28, 2006 Posted November 28, 2006 I think that a better idea than tattoed wedding rings would be your SO's phone number tattooed to your genitals.. that way if they have any questions the number is right if front of their face.. providing they like oral sex that is... Call 555-5555 for any questions relating to this penis or questions relating to ownership and the right to entry Call 555-5555 for any questions relating to this puxxy or questions relating to ownership and the right to entry
Romeo Must Die Posted November 28, 2006 Posted November 28, 2006 I think the MM does persue the other woman the same as the other woman persues MM with attention. Example, "Oh my, you are so strong." and "You have the most amazing blue eyes." and "Would you like to have lunch sometime? just friends of course!" Also, the same persuee that knew about your fight with MMs wife the night before also knew MM would be at the post office at ten o'clock and made that look like it was a complete coincedence too... and MM are stupid they will fall for this duplicity every time, especially the lonely ones that wear their heart on their sleeves. You see, It's a different kind of cat and mouse game and any womens magazine will teach a woman how to be coy with a man to get what she wants. It's human nature to desire what we cant have. Its got to be about good boundaries and common sense and personal responsibility for another person. The wedding rings themselves are just a token of marriage. Its only as powerful as the person wearing the ring. PS Oyster, Romeo Must Die is one of my favorite movies. Its been a long time shouldnt a left you without a dope beat to step to step to...
Adunaphel Posted November 28, 2006 Posted November 28, 2006 WTF you talking about ADUNAPEHL??? MM pursues single woman cause SHE LETS HIM PURSUE....in the end it is women who choose the man they want. The man chasing the woman is an illusion. Alpha, I agree with your post more than you might think - even if not completely. what I meant is that it's rarely single women throwing themselves at guys (married or not) who have shown no interest whatsoever in them, it's usually the guys making the first move. So in case a guy decided to get a tattooed ring to prevent single women throwing themselves at him, it would make no sense imo. If it is for other reasons, it could be a nice idea.
Adunaphel Posted November 28, 2006 Posted November 28, 2006 I think that a better idea than tattoed wedding rings would be your SO's phone number tattooed to your genitals.. that way if they have any questions the number is right if front of their face.. providing they like oral sex that is... Call 555-5555 for any questions relating to this penis or questions relating to ownership and the right to entry Call 555-5555 for any questions relating to this puxxy or questions relating to ownership and the right to entry As funny as this post is, it would be a brilliant idea. Quite a lot of people would chicken out of cheating fearing that their SO might get a phone call.
alphamale Posted November 28, 2006 Posted November 28, 2006 what I meant is that it's rarely single women throwing themselves at guys (married or not) who have shown no interest whatsoever in them, it's usually the guys making the first move. the guy is making the first move that others can see. the woman has already given him indirectly the OK for him to come over. she smile at him or give him eye contact or other body language. she shows her interest in him 1st but in a covert way. this has been studied time and time again in research studies and the results come out the same. if you don't know this ADUNAPHEL then you know little of gender relations. ever the veneralbe ALPHAMALE knows this fact.
Adunaphel Posted November 28, 2006 Posted November 28, 2006 the guy is making the first move that others can see. the woman has already given him indirectly the OK for him to come over. she smile at him or give him eye contact or other body language. she shows her interest in him 1st but in a covert way. this has been studied time and time again in research studies and the results come out the same. if you don't know this ADUNAPHEL then you know little of gender relations. ever the veneralbe ALPHAMALE knows this fact. I think you are quite right and I have probably a lot to learn. I'm a disaster when it comes to relationships, no big secret!
silktricks Posted November 29, 2006 Posted November 29, 2006 the guy is making the first move that others can see. the woman has already given him indirectly the OK for him to come over. she smile at him or give him eye contact or other body language. she shows her interest in him 1st but in a covert way. this has been studied time and time again in research studies and the results come out the same. YEAAAAAA!!! At last someone else on these boards have read enough of psychology studies to know this!!!! Thank-you Alpha!!!
jmargel Posted November 29, 2006 Posted November 29, 2006 the guy is making the first move that others can see. the woman has already given him indirectly the OK for him to come over. she smile at him or give him eye contact or other body language. she shows her interest in him 1st but in a covert way. this has been studied time and time again in research studies and the results come out the same. if you don't know this ADUNAPHEL then you know little of gender relations. ever the veneralbe ALPHAMALE knows this fact. Alpha.. not all the time. Especially at the bars/clubs I have been I have noticed guys come upto women that didnt even look in their direction. Yes a guy is more prone to do so if the woman is smiling at him, etc.. but there are guys out there with the 'I have nothing to lose attitude' and will hit on every attractive chick with the hopes that he lands something.
GreenEyedLady Posted November 29, 2006 Posted November 29, 2006 the guy is making the first move that others can see. the woman has already given him indirectly the OK for him to come over. she smile at him or give him eye contact or other body language. she shows her interest in him 1st but in a covert way. this has been studied time and time again in research studies and the results come out the same. if you don't know this ADUNAPHEL then you know little of gender relations. ever the veneralbe ALPHAMALE knows this fact. You assume that the woman already knows that he is married or that he is wearing a ring...That is not always the case...
PussInHeels Posted November 29, 2006 Posted November 29, 2006 I don't think rings keep anyone away. Just yesterday, someone hit on me at the gas station with my ring in plain sight. And when I said I was married, he was like, "So I can't call you and convince you to go out to dinner with me?" "No." "Are you sure?" People like that don't give a crap...
GreenEyedLady Posted November 29, 2006 Posted November 29, 2006 Rings keep lots of people away...of course there are those who seem attracted to one, but I don't think that's the majority...it is the lack of a ring that signals availability to single people...
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