LucreziaBorgia Posted November 29, 2006 Posted November 29, 2006 If he's that committed, why is he sleeping with someone else? The universal answer: cakeman!
puddleofmud Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 If he's that committed, why is he sleeping with someone else? Because he CAN!
puddleofmud Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 I am not sure, sweetie, but it sounds as if you are grasping at straws here. You seem to be looking for "proof" or validation in this relationship. Will him saying "I love" you really give you that? I am, again. going to be devil's advocate and ask you if those words are enough for you? What else will you want once that is spoken (if you should believe it)? You WILL want MORE. because when someone says "I love you" it does give you the right to expect more and you may not get it. Is it possible that due to the fact that he is comitted to another that your heart is already breaking and you are seeking HIM to heal that? Is this really the direction you want to take? Will this "work" for you? Will those three little words be enough? In my opinion "love" is not enough in a relationship. Love is just a spring board. It is not the do all and be all of a relationship. If it were that simple none of us would be here and none of us would be hurting! It is your path to walk, so tread lightly and be careful with your sweet little heart! Best wishes to you, dear.
Guest Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 I can never imagine telling MM that" I love him". I've came close to telling him when we were intimate once. I thik I never told him cause I am unsure about how I truly feel about him. He's M and never will be mine. So why take a chance and scare him away.
noforgiveness Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 I can never imagine telling MM that" I love him". I've came close to telling him when we were intimate once. I thik I never told him cause I am unsure about how I truly feel about him. He's M and never will be mine. So why take a chance and scare him away. you just said he'll never be yours so why be with him? Why be with someone who you know is with someone else? Just don't get it.
Guest Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 you just said he'll never be yours so why be with him? Why be with someone who you know is with someone else? Just don't get it. Well why are there so many OW involved with MM then? I was never looking for anything serious from him anyway. But, when you spend so much time with someone and get to know them, feelings eventually develop. I am with him because I enjoy being with him and I have feelings for him.
Author sassiex Posted November 30, 2006 Author Posted November 30, 2006 The reasons that A's go on so long is because someone/both partners (depends on the situation) fall in love...I said I love you before I knew he was married and guess what, didn't matter, he didn't get scared or run away...he fell in love, too...maybe it starts out as just for fun, but the reason it lasts is because it becomes more and it is hard to walk away when you love someone... S: If he does get scared and cuts contact with you, then you know you're wasting your love on someone who's not worth it...you've been with him a long time...what do you think you should do? i agree 100% i know he loves me ......being together for a while feelings change ! you woulg get bored with each other if there were no feelings, sex would not be enough !!!!!!
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