green_eyed_lady Posted November 23, 2006 Posted November 23, 2006 I am soo torn on this but I know it must end. I lived in Alabama for a while helping my sister with her kids. While there I met a great man who is one of the nicest guys ever. I was called back to california not long after him and I getting together to take care of my granma. He resents me having to go but respects it also. The only thing is that he is ALWAYS starting a fight about something or another that has to do with that subject. I can't handle him making me feel guilty for taking care of my family anymore it is really wearing me down. I have talked to him and he says he is sorry and things are good for a few days and then it's back to the same old arguement. I can not handle this anymore. When he is not argueing with me about it , he is trying to convince me to go back to alabama and live with him so we can get married. I am not ready for that yet either. Point being is how do I break things off with out making him feel like crap about things? Becuase these are my issues not his. I do not want him thinking it's becuase he is not desireable.
lovelorcet Posted November 23, 2006 Posted November 23, 2006 So here is a no BS answer, just keep in mind this guy sounds like hw really likes you... 1. Explain your thoughts and then, dump him 2. Go into NC (for his own good) 3. You both should move on...
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