Nerves about first date

[daydreamerz]

I don't have a lot of self-esteem when it comes to dating because I don't have a lot of experience with it. I'm 20 years old and have never had a boyfriend, but have dated several guys in the past couple of years but I always end it before things get too seriously because I get really nervous.

 

Well, I went to a concert with a couple of my friends on Friday and I met this guy who was really drunk, but besides that he seemed like a pretty nice guy. We hung out for most of the night and he ended up asking for my phone number and texted me a couple of days ago asking if I wanted to go out on saturday. The problem is I'm home from college this week and don't go back until Sunday, so I told him this and he told me to give him a call. so, first of all I probably won't call him until next week some time when I'm back at school. I'm not sure if that would be rude, but it would just make more sense to wait until I get back.

 

Also, I really want to go out with him, but I'm also extremely nervous. He was pretty wasted when we met, so I'm not really sure how smart that would be. Also, he was talking to several other girls that night and I have this weird fear that he might be getting me mixed up with one of them.

 

Well, I probably will end up going out with him and I would apreciate any advice you guys can give to ease my nerves. I've been told by a couple of guys that I've dated that I come off very cold and uninterested at first. I'm just really shy and really insecure when it comes to dating. I never want to appear overly interested because I fear that they're not nearly as interested in me.