kandicelaci Posted November 22, 2006 Posted November 22, 2006 Me and my boyfriend have been together for 7 month now and I am in love with him without a doubt, but there are things that bother me about him. When we first started dating we could get our hand off of each other. We went from having sex 3-4 times a day to then 3-4 times a week to once every other week to now maybe 1-2 times a month. I have tried making moves and making it completely obvious that I want to have sex and sometimes he will completely call me out on it, but not do anything about it. That right there makes me wonder. Just recently we celebrated his birthday and I practically threw myself on him first thing in the morning and all he wanted to do was get out of bed and then later I found out that he masturbated. That completely crused me. Then the following weekend we went on vacation together to the beach and it was just the two of us for 3 full days and not once did he try and have sex with me of take any of my advances. I just dont know what to do about the situation anymore. I have try to let him know by leaving him notes but he just ignores them and never speaks of it again. I just don't know how to get the conversation started or what exactly to say or do. So if anyone out there has any advice that would be greatly appreciated!
Guest Posted November 22, 2006 Posted November 22, 2006 Me and my boyfriend have been together for 7 month now and I am in love with him without a doubt, but there are things that bother me about him. When we first started dating we could get our hand off of each other. We went from having sex 3-4 times a day to then 3-4 times a week to once every other week to now maybe 1-2 times a month. I have tried making moves and making it completely obvious that I want to have sex and sometimes he will completely call me out on it, but not do anything about it. That right there makes me wonder. Just recently we celebrated his birthday and I practically threw myself on him first thing in the morning and all he wanted to do was get out of bed and then later I found out that he masturbated. That completely crused me. Then the following weekend we went on vacation together to the beach and it was just the two of us for 3 full days and not once did he try and have sex with me of take any of my advances. I just dont know what to do about the situation anymore. I have try to let him know by leaving him notes but he just ignores them and never speaks of it again. I just don't know how to get the conversation started or what exactly to say or do. So if anyone out there has any advice that would be greatly appreciated! This is a little unusual, but I heard that some men get so addicted to masturbation that it feels better for them that actual sex (TBH, I read about that in the advice column of some old magazine). I don't know his personality, but is it possible to just start a calm and easy conversation with him where you directly address those issues. Just tell him that you love him so much, and that you need him more. Don't be apologetic, and don't feel embarrased about it. You have all the right to ask him this.
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