Guest Posted November 22, 2006 Posted November 22, 2006 My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 months. Do you think it's bad that he's never gotten me any sort of gift?
Guest Posted November 24, 2006 Posted November 24, 2006 My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 months. Do you think it's bad that he's never gotten me any sort of gift? Yes. Next time he shows up at your door or you meet him somewhere ask him where your flowers are. See him one more time after that. If he doesn't show up with something, then the next time he calls tell him you are busy. Keep telling him you are busy until something is either delivered or mailed to you. Period. A lady should be treated like a lady. DO NOT settle for any less.
Walk Posted November 25, 2006 Posted November 25, 2006 Hahahahahah Oh, that's a good one! hahaha hahahah I think that could go under "How to get kicked to the curb." Too funny. I've got it, instead of demanding flowers, maybe she could talk to him.... I know, that's a stretch. We all know that people are capable of mind reading, and that everyone thinks exactly like I do, so I should never have to ask how someone else views something... Guest who originally posted this question... Ask him. Good way might be to say something along the lines of: "I feel giving gifts is a way to show appreciation and love for someone, how do you feel about it?" Then discuss.
crazzzzzyyy Posted November 25, 2006 Posted November 25, 2006 well, ... were there any "obvious occasions" on which he could have given you gifts .. boys aren't that smart all the time you know . If you had birthday/Valentine's D/graduation/whatever and not rec'd anything from him then I would worry but if not, then wait... time will show. Some guys constantly buy flowers/gifts for their girls some are the opposite but it doesn't necess. mean they dont love you. They love you the same or even stronger. There must be a reason behind it, maybe it's his 1st relationship therefore he hasn't learned to buy gifts for another person or he did give gifts all the time in a previous relat'p but the last girl hasn't appreciated them so he is trying different tactic now dont worry.
roxy_1980 Posted November 25, 2006 Posted November 25, 2006 Have you given him any gifts? Women always feel that they deserve gifts, but many give little or nothing in return. If not, well he probably feels that you're in a relationship that has a low gift-giving "quota". Some relationship have high present frequencies, others are low. He's assumed the latter.
Guest Posted November 25, 2006 Posted November 25, 2006 Yes. Next time he shows up at your door or you meet him somewhere ask him where your flowers are. See him one more time after that. If he doesn't show up with something, then the next time he calls tell him you are busy. Keep telling him you are busy until something is either delivered or mailed to you. Period. A lady should be treated like a lady. DO NOT settle for any less. damn, thats6ay86 some good advice.
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