loveylee_steff Posted November 22, 2006 Posted November 22, 2006 hey guys, I'm hoping some one will help me out here..if you read this please be kind enough to put what YOU think because i'm after all sorts of opinions..right anyway i'll start... my ex boyfriend dumped me a year ago and I have only just recently got over him..he now has a girlfriend but i can safely say it doesn't affect me at all. But I'm really fed up with how all year he has had countless dates and then he gets a girlfriend. I've had nothing but guys i'm not interested in want to go out with me, I feel i'm much more picky than I was when i started going out with my ex...which is normally a good thing.So I can assure you I'm NOT desperate! but coming to the end of this year,i'm realising I aint happy on my own being single anymore,I didnt have many dates to enjoy myself with being single anyway & to be frank..i'm fed up. But the main reason i'm reaching out to someone for advice is,I knew this guy that was dating someone for a couple of years and he started flirting with me in a bar,I resisted because obviously he has someone already,so we both agreed if one day we are both single we shall hook up, now i fancied the pants off this guy i'm hoped and prayed for that day. But one day I spoke to him and I confessed I find him rather hot, with me saying this he dumps his girlfriend & comes straight to me saying ''well it's like you said ''we are young'' and I felt like I couldn't do what I wanted. I did feel kinda guilty but at the same time dead happy as I could snog this guy without guilt.We agreed to meet up but he went ''i dont want you thinking i want a relationship or anything,I'd love some fun with a lovely lady like you...but pretty girls are easy to fall in love with.'' So I went along with it regardless..after all he IS hot, I didnt care... I met up with him the other day & we got on well, I wanted to play 'hard to get' but he wouldn't make the first move so I leant in for the kiss..which ended up being him kissing me more forcefully. but then we ended up going back to my house before he had to leave and he said he would like to see me again as i'm a nice girl...then he added later that he can't wait to sleep with me. He put his arm round me and before he went he said ''cya soon''...i added ''i cant wait see you again'' in a txt and it's been 2 days now..and i haven't heard from him. Now he has only been split up just over a week and I dont know what to think..I know he wants fun but i have to admit I'm depressed. After that night i'v hardly eaten, I can't stop thinking about him, I'm waiting by the phone for a text but i'm getting no where, I haven't felt like this all year..and i know when i like someone, this isn't desperation..ok i'v come to realise I don't wanna be alone now but it's only cos this guy has shaken me. I dunno why I want anything, I have to admit I'd love to date him but is it too soon? I dont know how guys work with relationships. I wanna see him again like he said to me...I keep thinking that maybe I did something wrong or something...I have this urge to text him and ask how he is or something rude and flirty or a question of ''would you like to meet up again soon?'' but I always get told to play it cool...but why are guys allowed to made the first move and not girls?? I'm going mad!!!!! guys what should I do? please help me I really need advice
theadventure50120 Posted November 22, 2006 Posted November 22, 2006 I read someone that guys jump into another relationship to quick and girls hang around for a bit , don't know if that's true though. I'm guessing it's them guys who have no brains though lol , i have been single for 2month and i like this girl but i'm holding myself back for some reason. Maybe he is like that? Do you know if he has gone back to this girl? After 2days of not hearing from him?
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