wonderinggal Posted November 22, 2006 Posted November 22, 2006 guys, let me know what you think of my situation. I met this guy at the bar last month or 2 months ago ( i cant really remember). After that he asked to meet up for the second time and i did meet him for few times after that day. Sometimes for simple dinner with his friends and sometime just two of us. Every meeting was very enjoyable and fun. He is funny and friendly, really fun to be wtih. He told me that he is leaving for good soon by end of this month. So i just said to my self to slow down and not to take things seriously. And he said that he likes me and he has feeling for me but he knows that it will be uselss to start any relationship as he is leaving . So i said i understood his point and i said just to be friends. After that he went to thailand for 2 weeks and he emailed me from thailand and asked me how i have been which i answered casually that i m fine. Actually, i did think of him a lot and i miss him. But i just didnt want to tell him so. And he emailed me again and he asked me if i missed him. I didnt answer him because i didnt want to tell him what i felt. First day he came back from thailand he contacted me and asked to meet up.Then we met , and he told me that he missed me and thought of me a lot. He said he likes me again and again but i said to him that he is leaving very soon and there is nothing i can do about it. Then he said " u never know what is gonna happen . Why dont we live this two weeks ? " I like him a lot but it is impossible. But we kept on meeting each other , for cinema, simple dinner, etc. And last week, i visit him to his place and we made love again ( before that we did once). It was short but sweet. But these days he seemed avoiding. He texted me and asked me how i am doing and what is my plan for today bla bla. And he told me what he is gonna do for that day , play soccer with his buddies , bla bla. Everyday just sms or a simple short call and very casual. So i just acted normal as well. today i heard nothing from him. I didnt say that i miss him or something like that. I am wondering , what is happening ? is he avoiding me or maybe he just playing a game ? should i just move on ?
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