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3 and a half weeks... he just told his parents


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My ex's mom emailed me today, he just told her last night that we broke up! He didn't tell her what the whole reason is but he did tell her that he cheated on me... which is better than blaming me like I thought he would. I don't know what to say to her, I am gald that she emailed me she was very supportive and I am glad that she doesn't think badly of me.

 

I got another strange message today... this one was on myspace, from some gay guy telling me that it was a good thing he broke up with me because he is gay and now he can get with this guy again. Totally pointless if you ask me, what would be going through some guys head to want to send me a message like that. Some people's thought processes confuse the hell out of me!

 

I need something better to do with my life than sit on myspace... maybe I should delete my profile all together, that might solve some of my problems.

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Well, as you said, it's good that he didn't put the blame on you.

 

I think that you should reply to his mom in a nice way, but not revealing any information he himself decided to not disclose, for the sole reason that it might prevent you from possible future quarrels between he and you.

 

Keep in mind that in order for you to be all fully well, you need to keep your distance, so, while I think you should reply to him, out of courtesy (and care, maybe), you should leave it at that. Further contact with her may make this situation even more messy.

 

And you should consider leaving MySpace if you feel it will cause you problems and be detrimental to your well-being, and not as any favor for him or anything. Think of yourself. Only yourself.

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