Vanquish Posted November 22, 2006 Posted November 22, 2006 So i posted this before and really am looking for some advice. I knew this girl since high school and we talked off and on until i was invited to her surprise birthday party where i was told she really really liked me. Long story short we have sex that night, virtually the first night we were together. It was great. So i waited a few days and decided to call her. I call her and she says she was just about to call me ect. I take her out on two dates and everything goes great, we laugh alot and find out we have a ton in common, moreso then i've ever had with any other previous girl. Anyway my problem is she was shy to come on to me at first and her friends had to sort of get us together. But now that we've been on 3 dates and talked a few times shes only really contacted me 3 times out of the 5 or so that i have, and they have always been positive. I was just wondering if shes testing me by having me call all the time and set things up(she has invited me along to do something prior though) to see how committed i am, or is she just not realy feeling me and looking for company and an easy laugh? I've taken her out bought her dinner did basically everything and it was all great, i even asked if we were officialy bf and gf and she always double talked me into seeing what i thought and i said well since we have been out so many times and have som much in common why not. She just comes off as reserved or shy for some reason and im not sure why, when we are together she trys to hold my hand ect. Is it a test? Can any ladies help me out or direct me to a post regarding little tests that girls put us guys through in the beginning of a relationship to see how committed we are? Im wondering cause i really really connect with this girl on an entirly new level that i haven't had with past girlfriends.
MadDog Posted November 22, 2006 Posted November 22, 2006 Dude. You're worried about whether she's into you because she's contacted you 3 times vs the 5 times you've contacted her? You've just entered Overanalyzation Town, population: you. My advice would be stop worrying so much and just enjoy your time with her. If you're worrying this much now, I'd hate to see how you'll be if you two actually end up official. MD
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