The Labyrinth Posted November 21, 2006 Posted November 21, 2006 Hello everyone, i am sorry if it sounded a bit confusing because this is unknown territory and i have fallen into it head first. First of all thanks to all those that would offer their advice and suggestions. Okay so here it is, the question i have is that this girl was interested in me, then i messed up so she distanced herself. And because of my current working status, i didn't really have any time to bother her so in a way i gived her space without intentionally giving it to her. Oh and she did mention that she wasn't ready for a relationship...( a total shot down and big hint that she wasn't interested anymore in me emotionally.) So my big question is that if she isn't interested would she have allowed me to do these things. And its obvious that i displayed my interest, or was it not enough. 1) She and her mom came to look at my friend's house that he recently bought and its also where i am living in. When her mom left to take a walk with my friend she stayed with me alone in the house when she knows that we are going to be alone. 2)Then while we were alone in my room, i dont' remember what lead to her showing her legs and about how she didn't shave her leg hair, she pulled up her jeans. so I caress her legs and then her arms. 3)When her hair was in her eye, i gently brushed it over her ears. 4) I didn't make any moves on her, because i did that on our first time out and it totally scared her away so this time we sat next to each other in the sofa and we talked. ( alone ) The whole afternoon and during dinner and after dinner as well. Remember the mom was there as well, but we were pretty much alone because my friend kept her mom busy. ( talking about the house and the mortgage and about rent) 5) We had some playful times where she would hit me, and knock me. So please help me with any comments or advice on decoding it. Does she see me as a friend or a potential interest i don't call her, because i want to give her a sense of challenge or have i lost it. thanks
Author The Labyrinth Posted November 22, 2006 Author Posted November 22, 2006 Okay so i think she isn't really interested in me anymore, but why is she allowing me the opportunity to display my interest. Why doesn't she treat me like a casual friend. The whole don't call me thing is evidence that she is not interested. She was just acting friendly? Does she just trust me as a friend? because if she does this to her other friends, then she is definitely not my type of girl. But i don't think she is, she always said that she acts differently around me.. !! Could any females give me some insight in this, because i am quite confused... thanks
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