anna13 Posted November 21, 2006 Posted November 21, 2006 I just feel so frustrated about my situation. my H and I are reconecting it seems and now my teen has turned into a complete jerk . I am so fed up and i am so tired of this. my teen says it has nothing to do with my H but I wonder , maybe i should just leave my teen alone , maybe this is his way of being independant , but the jerk part well that is just that he is being a jerk i think., i dont know anymore. i have posted in the parenting forum about my teen's behavior. I am just so tired. and angry . when one thing is going better something else goes downhill . why why why ... i am just so angry . I feel that I deserve to be happy . I want to be happy , my toddler deserves to have a family that is functional, my teen does too but he is being the stick in the bike wheel. my H and I want to be happy , my H says he doesnt have a problem with my teen . but I think that will change if my teen continues this bad attitude ( read more about the attutude on the parenting posts) I dont know , i feel like crying i feel like yelling, I am just so sick of it . I am tired of being treated badly by my teen. I am tired of my teen having so much control with my relationship with my H . I am tired of just being unhappy and frustrated. like I said in the parenting forum I am sick of this Sh**. I know i am a good parent , i try my best , but i am getting so frustrated just really fed up. help.....when my teen is at school it is just so peacefull and calm . but when he comes home it is like the dictator just walked through the door to make everyone feel stressed. i am just sick of it.
behonest63 Posted November 21, 2006 Posted November 21, 2006 Stick with it if you can your just frustrated right now. Kids can be so disrespectful, remember we all learn later in life when the light bulb comes on. Most of us have been thru this at one time or another to include me and my daughter doing hard drugs and be so hateful and disrepectful. It does have something to do with the family atmosphere and she comfirmed this as she has become more mature but knows how wrong she was. This is a process many go thru in life an your no different. Its hard and everyone wants to be treated good and loved. Our kids love us we know they do but they have lots of things going on in their minds as well. We have all sat our kids down and talked and had that great hug and things seem to get better and then BAM! What I am saying is its all part of life and coping. You know you love your kids and so do I but sometimes they can be such Asses. They have no clue what we do for them sometimes and they are so ungrateful. Hopefully yours will do as I did and tell my parents how much I love them and how much I caused them pain by not listening during my childhood. But, remember I think children are a product of their environment and its a hard mix to let them be free but also keep them on the straight road. So many pressures and influences outside your lives and house. We did good and so have you. They arent homeless, they still love you, their healthy hopefully and you did a great job to reach that point. Kids are a lot of work and the older they get the less you think they love you or care for you but let me tell you no matter what happened in my life my Mom and Dad stuck thru it thick and thin and I love and appreciate them for this and one day yours will also trust me. If they dont then they had larger issues but they will. Your having a bad day but it will get better you know that. Good luck and remember your not alone.
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