Bobby Brady Posted November 23, 2006 Posted November 23, 2006 I live here in the south--not too far from New Orleans and just began dating this gal who makes me happier than a pig in a poke. We have been having a great time just hanging out, going to the motion picture shows and eating out and so forth. We have not had sex at all but I got a hankerin' that it might be soon. ANyhow, we were talking and she said she had somethign important that she needed to tell me. Real serious like. Well, I thought she was gonna tell me she was divorced, or had a kid or was beaten by her pappy when she was younger but I was not ready for what she did say. I guess she was feeling the pressure for sex like I am and said that before we had sex, she wanted me to know that she is a "little different down there". I was like what the hell does that mean? She said she has some scars and such because she just got finished with a SRS surgery. Now I have no idea what this is, so rather than looking like the fool on the hill, I said that's ok. And then came here to see if anyone knew what this is all about. My bes buddy Clive said he thought that she might have had her hairs removed, and a buddy of his said he thought that she may have had her "lips down there" shortened up a bit because they were long and ugly. So, here I sit confused as a the gang from the Wizard of Oz not knowing which fork to take. Anyone know? It's a bull**** post.
alphamale Posted November 23, 2006 Posted November 23, 2006 It's a bull**** post. bobby brady...where's Greg and Peter?
Bobby Brady Posted November 23, 2006 Posted November 23, 2006 Gender is about your brain, not about your body. What??? Gender is about your brain, not your body? This is truly asinine. Sure in some cases there may be some gray areas, but to make this blanket statement like it's a given fact is one of the more ludicrous remarks I've heard. For starters, where do hormones come from? The brain or glands? That's just the tip of the iceberg.
Fun2BMe Posted November 23, 2006 Posted November 23, 2006 What??? Gender is about your brain, not your body? This is truly asinine. Sure in some cases there may be some gray areas, but to make this blanket statement like it's a given fact is one of the more ludicrous remarks I've heard. For starters, where do hormones come from? The brain or glands? That's just the tip of the iceberg. I agree 110%
magichands Posted November 23, 2006 Posted November 23, 2006 I agree 110%. I just knew you are 11 out of 10. Amazing.
Fun2BMe Posted November 23, 2006 Posted November 23, 2006 I just knew you are 11 out of 10. Amazing. I hankerin' agree 110% 4 u
magichands Posted November 23, 2006 Posted November 23, 2006 don't cry... I just can't stand idly by and watch probability being abused.
theadventure50120 Posted November 23, 2006 Posted November 23, 2006 People come here when there down etc , i have seen TYASAFAHICSI make 2 topics and both have made me laugh , one about NC and now this , are you being serious lol? and it's just the words you use aswell.. If anyone needs cheering up throw him in the topic lol.
Author TYASAFAHICSI Posted November 23, 2006 Author Posted November 23, 2006 Well it is not a bs post. Outcast--thanks for your comments you seem like a very reasonable and educated person and I appreciate it. Obviously kids is out of the question. But I am so confused. I did not meet her as a male, I met her as a woman so how woudl I see that she is acting all "gay" and I am not sure that is an indication in any event. Hey Bobby---wasn't your dad outted for sucking dick? If anyone watched the Swan televisoin show, you know what plastic surgery can do. I imagine it is the same below the belt as well. But now I am in a conundrum..here I am, having met a woman that I like, that I may be getting intimate with, and now this. I cannot say I am "into" this but how is this terribly different than someone saying that they have an uncurable disease? I thnk it is the emotional issues and the shock. I wish she had not told me. As to my goals and dreams--in that realm--therre are none at this point and having or not having kids might be fine with me there is no biological clock ticking in me--and I dount it is ticking in her either. But if so, there is always adoption
whichwayisup Posted November 23, 2006 Posted November 23, 2006 I wish she had not told me. If she hadn't and you found out a year from now, imagine how you'd feel? Hurt, betrayed, like the truth was hidden from you?
Bobby Brady Posted November 23, 2006 Posted November 23, 2006 Go find yourself some articles on the psychology of gender and read them. I'm SO sick of people who, utterly unschooled, make brilliant remarks like 'that's bull****'. READ, baby, and you'll find that it's not bull**** at all. Unless larnin' hurts your brain. If you are so schooled and such an authority, post some information rather than just basically argue for the point of arguing. Or maybe in your lofty place you are just too sick of people like me to stoop like that. And just so you're clear, Outcast, the BS comment pertained to the initial post. I had made other points about the blanket nonsense statement: "Gender is about the brain" And actually, I did some research, albeit briefly, before I posted that. Some things I learned was that the brain sends signals (i.e., hormnones) to the body which triggers certain things, but, and maybe I read this the wrong way, to suggest that the brain is the only thing that dictates our gender, once we are developed adults, is preposterous. If something else was meant, then perhaps the poster could clarify. But when I look down and see a penis, that tells me something about myself.
Bobby Brady Posted November 23, 2006 Posted November 23, 2006 Well it is not a bs post. Okay, if as you say, this is not BS, I apologize. I won't go into why, but it seemed a little unbelievable, and many things on the internet should be questioned and this smacked of such a tale.
melodymatters Posted November 23, 2006 Posted November 23, 2006 my feeling was that it was BS as well, but it was freakin funny so i didn't mind !!! We all need a break from our personal drama's sometime
Bobby Brady Posted November 23, 2006 Posted November 23, 2006 If she hadn't and you found out a year from now, imagine how you'd feel? Hurt, betrayed, like the truth was hidden from you? Yes, I totally agree. Full disclosure in this instance is the only option for 'her' for these and many many other reasons.
alphamale Posted November 23, 2006 Posted November 23, 2006 Yes, I totally agree. Full disclosure in this instance is the only option for 'her' for these and many many other reasons. Hey Bobby....what was the deal in that one episode where you pretended to be Cindy's secret admirer? Was there some incestuous stuff going on there?
Bobby Brady Posted November 23, 2006 Posted November 23, 2006 Hey Bobby....what was the deal in that one episode where you pretended to be Cindy's secret admirer? Was there some incestuous stuff going on there? Well, I wasn't pretending. Face it, she's homely but in a hot way. Can you blame me fow wanting extras? Plus, we were step-sibs, not blood. She kissed like a champ!
Bobby Brady Posted November 23, 2006 Posted November 23, 2006 Hey Bobby---wasn't your dad outted for sucking dick? Actually, no, he got caught taking it in the butt.
Bobby Brady Posted November 23, 2006 Posted November 23, 2006 I just can't stand idly by and watch probability being abused. Yes. I'm 1,000% behind you!
Kamille Posted November 23, 2006 Posted November 23, 2006 TYASAFAHICSI, I think you are taking this information like a mature, open-minded person. I can understand what a challenge this could be for you. You compare it to an uncurable disease. I think in fact, in the case of your girlfriend, she has found the cure for her disease. Now the challenge for her is finding a partner who can accept her past. As to the kids thing and considering what you want out of the relationship, well, I mean, you can always consider adoption. On the gender biological-psychological debate... I believe that today so many things we believe as gendered are actually socially constructed. This makes it so it sometimes trumps biological make-up. But in fact, I say this and transgenderism has traversed all phases of recorded history. Today, thanks to modern medicine, people can actually change their physionomy.
Bobby Brady Posted November 23, 2006 Posted November 23, 2006 On the gender biological-psychological debate... I believe that today so many things we believe as gendered are actually socially constructed. This makes it so it sometimes trumps biological make-up. But in fact, I say this and transgenderism has traversed all phases of recorded history. Today, thanks to modern medicine, people can actually change their physionomy. True. THere are so many factors that go into it. THat's why, IMHO, to say it's all about the brain, which suggests that it has nothing to do with physionomy, is, again, preposterous. And it was said without qualifiers or anything, like it's a given. Hogwash.
Author TYASAFAHICSI Posted November 23, 2006 Author Posted November 23, 2006 Gosh--did not mean to start any feuding here. I happen to think Outcasts reply was helpful. But for you guys to say it was not--since you are not in the position I am (I am guessing there) I am not sure how you can say that. I am going over to her house for dinner toninght. I am sure it will be awkward, and to be honest I am not sure at all. But I also think this may be the night (if there is to be a night) when we get intimate. I almost wish I had not been told!
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