TYASAFAHICSI Posted November 21, 2006 Posted November 21, 2006 I live here in the south--not too far from New Orleans and just began dating this gal who makes me happier than a pig in a poke. We have been having a great time just hanging out, going to the motion picture shows and eating out and so forth. We have not had sex at all but I got a hankerin' that it might be soon. ANyhow, we were talking and she said she had somethign important that she needed to tell me. Real serious like. Well, I thought she was gonna tell me she was divorced, or had a kid or was beaten by her pappy when she was younger but I was not ready for what she did say. I guess she was feeling the pressure for sex like I am and said that before we had sex, she wanted me to know that she is a "little different down there". I was like what the hell does that mean? She said she has some scars and such because she just got finished with a SRS surgery. Now I have no idea what this is, so rather than looking like the fool on the hill, I said that's ok. And then came here to see if anyone knew what this is all about. My bes buddy Clive said he thought that she might have had her hairs removed, and a buddy of his said he thought that she may have had her "lips down there" shortened up a bit because they were long and ugly. So, here I sit confused as a the gang from the Wizard of Oz not knowing which fork to take. Anyone know?
bab Posted November 21, 2006 Posted November 21, 2006 OMG, I do hope that this post is a joke. If not, sit down. SRS: Sex Reassignment Surgery. Your gal used to be a man.
Author TYASAFAHICSI Posted November 21, 2006 Author Posted November 21, 2006 Ha Ha pretty funny bab. Seriously though.
Art_Critic Posted November 21, 2006 Posted November 21, 2006 We have not had sex at all but I got a hankerin' that it might be soon. If ya got that hankering then wash out yer lucky rubber..
alphamale Posted November 21, 2006 Posted November 21, 2006 pig in a poke. what exactly is a "poke"??
Art_Critic Posted November 21, 2006 Posted November 21, 2006 what exactly is a "poke"?? Many Americans know a poke as a small bag or sack, which it was also in Heywood’s day (a usage that has survived in Scotland). A poke, for example, was a suitable container into which to stuff a piglet for sale in the local market.
norajane Posted November 21, 2006 Posted November 21, 2006 If you Google SRS and vagina, which is presumably what she meant when she said "down there", all you get is references to sex reassignment surgery: Sex reassignment surgery (SRS) is a term for the surgical procedures by which a person's physical appearance and function of their existing sexual characteristics are changed to that of the other sex. It is part of a treatment for gender identity disorder in transsexual and transgender people. It may also be performed on intersex people, often in infancy. Other terms for SRS include gender reassignment surgery, sex reconstruction surgery, genital reconstruction surgery, gender confirmation surgery, and more recently sex affirmation surgery. The commonly used terms sex change or sex change operation are considered factually inaccurate. The terms feminizing genitoplasty and masculinizing genitoplasty are used medically http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_reassignment_surgery
Author TYASAFAHICSI Posted November 21, 2006 Author Posted November 21, 2006 Oh man. Well I certianly was not expecting that at all. Hell, whatnow?
alphamale Posted November 21, 2006 Posted November 21, 2006 Many Americans know a poke as a small bag or sack, which it was also in Heywood’s day (a usage that has survived in Scotland). A poke, for example, was a suitable container into which to stuff a piglet for sale in the local market. oh i didn't know that....but i've heard the saying many times.
Art_Critic Posted November 21, 2006 Posted November 21, 2006 Hell, whatnow? Pick up some AstroGlide Lube.. you are gonna need it... Just talk to her about it..
Mythical Posted November 21, 2006 Posted November 21, 2006 geese that is a tough situation. Defiently need to talk to her about this
whichwayisup Posted November 21, 2006 Posted November 21, 2006 Yeah you can't go wrong with lots of lube. her "lips down there" shortened up a bit because they were long and ugly. How many children has she had? Just wondering why they're so saggy.
bab Posted November 21, 2006 Posted November 21, 2006 How many children has she had? Just wondering why they're so saggy. I think you missed something wwiu. He thought that maybe a SRS surgery was to fix saggy lips, she doesn't actually have saggy lips, she used to be a man. So, I'm doubting any kids. Of course she could've fathered some before the surgery.
Art_Critic Posted November 21, 2006 Posted November 21, 2006 How many children has she had? Just wondering why they're so saggy. She use have 2 balls.. but no kids...
whichwayisup Posted November 21, 2006 Posted November 21, 2006 Yeah duh...I misread, once again. Oops! Gas, it has to be the gas.....lol
Author TYASAFAHICSI Posted November 21, 2006 Author Posted November 21, 2006 OK I see that definition now from what you all said, but I just cannot believe it. She seems like such a nice caring and feminine girl. It's can;t be. Maybe I mis-heard her or maybe she is talking about somethign else. I cannot go and talk about that and then wind up being all wrong. Hell, if I ask about changing sexes and am wrong, I look like George Bush on an aircraft carrier saying Mission Accomplished
a4a Posted November 21, 2006 Posted November 21, 2006 Many Americans know a poke as a small bag or sack, which it was also in Heywood’s day (a usage that has survived in Scotland). A poke, for example, was a suitable container into which to stuff a piglet for sale in the local market. may I add that often a slick seller would pop a pussy (of the meow variety) in the poke instead of a pig...... thus the saying "the cat is out of the bag" once it was discovered that the seller was attempting to decieve the buyer of the pig in a poke by using a cat instead. So the "cat is out of the bag" on this one for sure. She was a He.
alphamale Posted November 21, 2006 Posted November 21, 2006 Hell, if I ask about changing sexes and am wrong, I look like George Bush on an aircraft carrier saying Mission Accomplished If you take off her panties and find a hairy nutsack you may want to find out whats going on...
whichwayisup Posted November 21, 2006 Posted November 21, 2006 If you take off her panties and find a hairy nutsack you may want to find out whats going on... Can we say, "The Crying Game..."
Author TYASAFAHICSI Posted November 23, 2006 Author Posted November 23, 2006 Well, you all were right. That was it. Apparently she had it doen about a year ago and is loving life as a woman. Now, I just need to see if I can deal with that. I mean she looks like a duck, walks like a duck, and talks like a duck....
IpAncA Posted November 23, 2006 Posted November 23, 2006 Wow I missed this thread somehow. Talk about a shocker and a half. Well if your into that sort of thing that you can deal with that but if not then you know what to do. That would creep me out. I can't believe you couldn't tell he's a guy. That must have been some awesome plastic surgery and stuff to hid that.
Wantingtogetitright Posted November 23, 2006 Posted November 23, 2006 what do you want from this relationship as far as a future goes, marriage kids etc? If you do then you need to seriously consider this relationship and getout before anyone gets very hurt. Hell what do you want in the future is perhaps the better question, not necessarily with this person. if your long term goal is to settle down and have a family then are you willing to give up this dream. Even if you think you are now, it could cause resentment down the track and destroy your future anyway.
Outcast Posted November 23, 2006 Posted November 23, 2006 The person was never a 'guy'. The person was a girl with boy parts. Gender is about your brain, not about your body. Obviously if she is a nice caring and feminine girl it's because she always was a girl. Just the way people can be born with all kinds of things missing or out of place or not working, so can people be born with a brain geared to one gender and a body to the other. And it causes those folks terrible anguish until they can get put right. Remember, we were all exactly the same in the womb. The head of a man's penis is the clitoris in a woman. The labia would have been a scrotum. Gonads go up and in. So it's not too big a stretch to see that sometimes the differentiation doesn't get done right in the womb. Now medicine can fix that.
Wantingtogetitright Posted November 23, 2006 Posted November 23, 2006 The person was never a 'guy'. The person was a girl with boy parts. Gender is about your brain, not about your body. Obviously if she is it's because she always was a girl. Just the way people can be born with all kinds of things missing or out of place or not working, so can people be born with a brain geared to one gender and a body to the other. And it causes those folks terrible anguish until they can get put right. Remember, we were all exactly the same in the womb. The head of a man's penis is the clitoris in a woman. The labia would have been a scrotum. Gonads go up and in. So it's not too big a stretch to see that sometimes the differentiation doesn't get done right in the womb. Now medicine can fix that. But this is all external stuff, and I agree that what your mind is all about is who you really are. However whilst external appearances may say she is a woman, internally, (physically) she will still not have a womb etc and will therefore not be able to bear children. This is a big issue and should be considered long and hard by the poster. Si this what they ultimately want out of life, if so this relationship should not be pursued unless willing to adopt etc.
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