whispering_willoww Posted November 21, 2006 Posted November 21, 2006 Ok, first I'm 28, he's 34 so we are adults here . Well I met this guy while I was in a musical with a community theater. At first, I thought he was cute and now I have somewhat of a crush on him. A few people from the same musical were in another show. I sent him an email and asked him if he would like to go. He said yes and then said we could catch a late dinner afterwards. First of all... I don't ask guys out because I'm shy with that. He is the first guy I have ever asked out. Anyways, Saturday night was our "date" we had a great time wonderful engaging conversation. He even gave me a sweet compliment and of course I blushed. I was ready to pay for everything but he was insistent that he buy the tickets for the show. Since some of our friends were in the show they were going to go the same place we were going for dinner so we sat with them, I was insistent on getting dinner though. So, everyone left including us and we kinda stood there both seeming a little shy. Actually he seemed really shy. We talked a little, he thanked me for asking him and telling him about the show said he had a great time, and gave me a hug, I thanked him for going with me. Then he started talking again for a few more minutes. He then said he better let me get home and gave me another hug and I left. We didn't say we would get together again or anything. But I did notice as I was backing my car out he was staring and waved not that it meant anything. Bottom line I really like this guy and we have a lot in common (movies, theater, literature, travel.. the list continues), not to mention I think he is very attractive....should I call him and ask him out again? Does it sound like he's interested? I don't want to be pushy or anything. Help?
Pyro Posted November 21, 2006 Posted November 21, 2006 Ok, first I'm 28, he's 34 so we are adults here . Well I met this guy while I was in a musical with a community theater. At first, I thought he was cute and now I have somewhat of a crush on him. A few people from the same musical were in another show. I sent him an email and asked him if he would like to go. He said yes and then said we could catch a late dinner afterwards. First of all... I don't ask guys out because I'm shy with that. He is the first guy I have ever asked out. Anyways, Saturday night was our "date" we had a great time wonderful engaging conversation. He even gave me a sweet compliment and of course I blushed. I was ready to pay for everything but he was insistent that he buy the tickets for the show. Since some of our friends were in the show they were going to go the same place we were going for dinner so we sat with them, I was insistent on getting dinner though. So, everyone left including us and we kinda stood there both seeming a little shy. Actually he seemed really shy. We talked a little, he thanked me for asking him and telling him about the show said he had a great time, and gave me a hug, I thanked him for going with me. Then he started talking again for a few more minutes. He then said he better let me get home and gave me another hug and I left. We didn't say we would get together again or anything. But I did notice as I was backing my car out he was staring and waved not that it meant anything. Bottom line I really like this guy and we have a lot in common (movies, theater, literature, travel.. the list continues), not to mention I think he is very attractive....should I call him and ask him out again? Does it sound like he's interested? I don't want to be pushy or anything. Help? Ask him out again. It sounded like he was into you. Some guys like it if the girl asks him out sometimes.
moman Posted November 21, 2006 Posted November 21, 2006 I concur, ask this guy out again. He's digging you for sure.
Sand&Water Posted November 21, 2006 Posted November 21, 2006 RE: Initially, I thought the story engulfed around two twenty-something years olds. You are both adults -he is 34 years old. In the entire, time he was with you, couldn't gather the courage to at least give hope to you for a future get-together! I am not labelling a man, based on his age. However it is disappointing to see this particular fellow, withdraw, from the outing. It was evident he presented the nice, relaxed, courteous, pleasant, well-mannered side of his nature [all in all, just a informal show for you]. You, whispering_willoww, could ask him out for a second date -IF you are willing to see where this may lead you. But you would, only, be leading yourself on -believing there is hope for a turn around. I believe, you should let him go. [As a final bait, send him a short message thanking him for a joyous outing with your phone number included. Then wait to see it he will call. You seem very interested in him -what a shame!] Sand&Water
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