agnf666 Posted November 20, 2006 Posted November 20, 2006 Alright, So... I have happily moved on with my dating life... well maybe. So, I met this guy in august at a party. I was a little bit drunk, he was as well. After the first 20 minutes of talking to him he just ups and kisses me. Now, that is the first time that has ever happened to me and it was wierd and it kinda had me hooked to him in a way. Now, it's november. I hang out with him almost everyweek end. Now, we have been intimate but we haven't had sex. Now, this weekend we were going to actually do it but I think with him being sick and a little buzzed from drinking he couldn't get it up. I'm just hoping that is the issue with that and not that he didn't find me attractive or anything. I think if that was the case he would have been like that with me for soo long. So, since we couldn't do that we just spent the night together. We both sleep on our sides, so I wasn't facing him at all. Then I woke up at some point of the night and he had his arm around me all holding me close and stuff. Now, my issue with this boy is that we never talk about starting a relationship. I think because he is soo busy that he doesn't want to start one just yet. I never brang it up because it just seems like that too me. Should I ask him or just give it time and see what happens? Oh and about the sex thing... Should I worry about it?
Pyro Posted November 20, 2006 Posted November 20, 2006 Alright, So... I have happily moved on with my dating life... well maybe. So, I met this guy in august at a party. I was a little bit drunk, he was as well. After the first 20 minutes of talking to him he just ups and kisses me. Now, that is the first time that has ever happened to me and it was wierd and it kinda had me hooked to him in a way. Now, it's november. I hang out with him almost everyweek end. Now, we have been intimate but we haven't had sex. Now, this weekend we were going to actually do it but I think with him being sick and a little buzzed from drinking he couldn't get it up. I'm just hoping that is the issue with that and not that he didn't find me attractive or anything. I think if that was the case he would have been like that with me for soo long. So, since we couldn't do that we just spent the night together. We both sleep on our sides, so I wasn't facing him at all. Then I woke up at some point of the night and he had his arm around me all holding me close and stuff. Now, my issue with this boy is that we never talk about starting a relationship. I think because he is soo busy that he doesn't want to start one just yet. I never brang it up because it just seems like that too me. Should I ask him or just give it time and see what happens? Oh and about the sex thing... Should I worry about it? If you are ready or interested in being official with him, then ask. Don't hold back any of your feelings. I wouldn't worry about the sex thing. Try again when the two of you are sober or near sober and he shouldn't have the same problem.
Author agnf666 Posted November 20, 2006 Author Posted November 20, 2006 He was just about sober... I think it was the whole being sick thing that was killing it. I'm going to give it a little more time. I mean he seems so into me, but then I feel that my mind might be playing tricks on me or something.
allina Posted November 20, 2006 Posted November 20, 2006 So did you break up with the guy who didn't show up on your birthday? And this is the new guy? Or am I totally confused? I don't agree w/ Riddler on this one, i wouldn't say anything just yet.
Pyro Posted November 20, 2006 Posted November 20, 2006 He was just about sober... I think it was the whole being sick thing that was killing it. I'm going to give it a little more time. I mean he seems so into me, but then I feel that my mind might be playing tricks on me or something. My bad, I missed the part about being sick. You still have nothing to worry about in that department. If you want to wait some more, then by all means.
Pyro Posted November 20, 2006 Posted November 20, 2006 I don't agree w/ Riddler on this one, i wouldn't say anything just yet. :p :p
Author agnf666 Posted November 20, 2006 Author Posted November 20, 2006 So did you break up with the guy who didn't show up on your birthday? And this is the new guy? Or am I totally confused? I don't agree w/ Riddler on this one, i wouldn't say anything just yet. Totally a new guy. I haven't talked to the guy that didn't call me on my birthday since way before my birthday. I met the new guy in the middle of all that...
moman Posted November 20, 2006 Posted November 20, 2006 Oh thank goodness. I've been dating a girl since August too and we haven't yet been intimate. She is kind of a prude like that so I haven't been pushing her. Glad to hear I'm not the only one going without. I don't think you have a problem. Taking it slow is good in my opinion. He must be into you if you are still around after all this time.
Author agnf666 Posted November 20, 2006 Author Posted November 20, 2006 Oh thank goodness. I've been dating a girl since August too and we haven't yet been intimate. She is kind of a prude like that so I haven't been pushing her. Glad to hear I'm not the only one going without. I don't think you have a problem. Taking it slow is good in my opinion. He must be into you if you are still around after all this time. I figured if he didn't want me around, I would know about it. I mean we hang around a group of people that I have know for years and if he wanted me not to hang around him anymore I think he would tell one of them to tell me.
Author agnf666 Posted November 25, 2006 Author Posted November 25, 2006 Well, I ran into him last night aand it seemed like he barely wanted to talk to me... It might have been because he was busy with a few other things but he was like extremely distant... but there was alot of other people around. So, that might not be too good.
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