Guest Posted November 20, 2006 Posted November 20, 2006 hi, first of all i would like to thank anyone who's taking the time to read my post ok here's the deal... i've been with my boyfriend for a little over 3 weeks now. we live about an hour apart. we hit it off and started seeing eachother a couple of days during the week, and at least 1 day on the weekends. we're both 26 years old. i feel like we've taken our relationship slow, which is good. it took him 3 dates to finally kiss me, and we haven't had sex or even made out at all. this past weekend, he had a get-together at his place. he asked me if i wanted to just stay at his house so i didn't have to make the drive back (it was like 4 in the am) a few others were staying there as well, so i said ok. we slept together in the same bed but we didn't do anything. all he did was hold me and go to sleep... the next morning we woke up and spent the entire day just hanging out and cuddling on his couch watching tv. (we both work all during the week at stressful jobs so i didn't mind the rest!) i left at about 11:00 sunday night to head home. the thing is i really like this guy (i think he really likes me too) and i don't want to do anything to jepordize the relationship we have. do you guys think that was a bad move on my part to stay even though absolutely nothing happened? thanks again for your time!!
AmCanIam Posted November 20, 2006 Posted November 20, 2006 Hi there, I don't think it was necessarily a bad move at all. He asked you and you accepted. End of story. From what you've written, nothing was jeopardized. It sounds as though you both have a degree of respect for one another. Why would you feel you're staying would have jeopardized your relationship with him? DJ
Guest Posted November 20, 2006 Posted November 20, 2006 Hi there, I don't think it was necessarily a bad move at all. He asked you and you accepted. End of story. From what you've written, nothing was jeopardized. It sounds as though you both have a degree of respect for one another. Why would you feel you're staying would have jeopardized your relationship with him? DJ Thanks so much for replying Because it's only been 3 weeks and I've already slept in the same bed with him at his house.
AmCanIam Posted November 21, 2006 Posted November 21, 2006 Well he did ask if you would, and you did say you would. The sex can come later, build on the intimacy and closeness with one another first. Doesn't it feel great just being so physically close to another, the hugs, the spooning, the forking (okay, not sure if that really exists). I do and it does. I've done that with a number of GF's in the past and they loved it. Hope what I'm saying makes a little bit of sense. DJ
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