post-it Posted November 20, 2006 Posted November 20, 2006 I have a friend/coworker who is having problems with her husband. She is basically questioning whether she really loves him or not, and asked how I knew if/when I wasn't in love with somebody. I responded that I just pretty much knew when I didn't love someone, that it was easier to leave the relationship, not because I didn't care, but because I just kind of knew that things weren't right and so I wasn't so emotionally invested or attached to the other person. I'm just curious what you all think, about how you know you're not in love with someone, or don't love them. It should seem like an obvious answer, but my coworker seems to really be struggling with it.
justagirlforever Posted November 20, 2006 Posted November 20, 2006 It's very simple & obvious for me. If I had to question myself (about love), there's no question.
KittenMoon Posted November 20, 2006 Posted November 20, 2006 Sometimes there's a feeling of "wrong" or like something is missing in our lives, and often a relationship will be the first thing to suffer or to be blamed. So sometimes, IMO, it isn't necessarily a black and white situation whether or not you love someone.
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