Guest Posted November 20, 2006 Posted November 20, 2006 I have noticed that there are very few OW posting on this forum anymore. Perhaps the title should be changed to "The Betrayed Spouse"
peacelove Posted November 20, 2006 Posted November 20, 2006 I don't think they'll be gone for long. Just letting the Betrayed Spouses have the spotlight for a little while.
herenow Posted November 20, 2006 Posted November 20, 2006 I have noticed that there are very few OW posting on this forum anymore. Perhaps the title should be changed to "The Betrayed Spouse" All of the BS posts are about the OW. What better place to ask questions about the OW than a forum for OW? We already know what it's like to be a BS.
whichwayisup Posted November 20, 2006 Posted November 20, 2006 There was a crowd of OW who were unhappy on LS, they moved to a new site so they could get all the support they need.
BenThereDunThat Posted November 20, 2006 Posted November 20, 2006 ... where they had gone. I don't think it's functioning anymore. I'll try again and if it's still up, I'll PM you. Sorry, just realized I deleted the bookmark from this computer. I'll check when I get home.
NearlyThere Posted November 20, 2006 Posted November 20, 2006 I don't think it's functioning anymore. I'll try again and if it's still up, I'll PM you. Sorry, just realized I deleted the bookmark from this computer. I'll check when I get home. for that, but I dont think I have PM priviledges yet, only got 50 posts, well 51 now, lol, mind you at the rate i'm going give it a week or two. Thanks for the offer though and you could always give it a go.
Marielle Posted November 20, 2006 Posted November 20, 2006 Me too I would like to know the place for better OW support, even though I agree with these BS that are posting lately...and they seem really nice, and intelligent and helpful in a strange way (they always ****between nice words and thoughts ****still throwing their subtle little darts) but I m in pain and really need another extra ressource. BTDT can you let us know??
Jane Doe Posted November 20, 2006 Posted November 20, 2006 Personally, I'm getting a little tired of the bickering that's been going on here lately and I wish the moderators would put an end to it. I can totally understand and appreciate the pain that the betrayed wives here are going through. It's got to be devastating and all-consuming. However, coming here and lashing out at people they don't even know has gotten old really fast. They need to be venting their anger at their husbands and/or the other woman, not at strangers on a message board. The OW in this forum have made a conscious decision to do what they're doing and they will have to live with the results of that; be it good or bad. Betrayed wives coming here judging and flaming the members of this forum is doing no good at all -- for the OW or themselves. They need to get into some counseling, talk with real life family and friends, and find some constructive ways to deal with their pain. I don't see where anything positive is coming from any of these posts. I've stayed out of them because I'm not interested in reading all the bitterness and biting comments but I've scanned over them enough to see that each post is just a rehash of the other 10 they just posted. I mean no disrespect to the betrayed spouses here at all, but enough already with the arguing. No one on this board slept with your husband. Your anger is very misplaced.
LucreziaBorgia Posted November 21, 2006 Posted November 21, 2006 Do a Google search for Gloryb. That should take you where you want to go.
GreenEyedLady Posted November 21, 2006 Posted November 21, 2006 I have noticed that there are very few OW posting on this forum anymore. Perhaps the title should be changed to "The Betrayed Spouse" OMG! I love it!
outofdarkness Posted November 21, 2006 Posted November 21, 2006 How do you know that noone here slept with our husbands??? After reading these posts, and the anger and bitterness and exclusivity that apparnently lives here, I will go away...Sorry if I offended anyone...I was just trying to understand, as I think that is half the battle...Why don't we get into counseling??Well...we do, but we probrably wouldn't have to if the A didn't happen to begin with...Stop doing what you all are doing and we could live in peace...It takes two to tango...if one of you cuts it off, mabey we'd stand a chance...For those of you who have been so gracious and kind, thanks, for those who seem resentful and cocky...good bye and good luck...I'll stick to infidelity from now on...OOD
tinktronik Posted November 21, 2006 Posted November 21, 2006 You know , I think maybe it should be changed .Why the mods let the bickering continue I don't know ; they locked my birthday thread but allow OW and BS to battle it out . And mine was just a happy thread , really. Good luck to you all and may you all find peace both OW and BS.
GreenEyedLady Posted November 21, 2006 Posted November 21, 2006 Thanks Tink, that's why we're here, really...
herenow Posted November 21, 2006 Posted November 21, 2006 How do you know that noone here slept with our husbands??? After reading these posts, and the anger and bitterness and exclusivity that apparnently lives here, I will go away...Sorry if I offended anyone...I was just trying to understand, as I think that is half the battle...Why don't we get into counseling??Well...we do, but we probrably wouldn't have to if the A didn't happen to begin with...Stop doing what you all are doing and we could live in peace...It takes two to tango...if one of you cuts it off, mabey we'd stand a chance...For those of you who have been so gracious and kind, thanks, for those who seem resentful and cocky...good bye and good luck...I'll stick to infidelity from now on...OOD If you are still here, please don't go. I need you because there are so few of us. You would think that the OW would appreciate the time that we spend here trying to understand their point of view. I have read your posts and you have not been anything but truthful. I guess some people don't want to hear our truth. Maybe it hurts them too much. They say that this is their forum and if they told me to leave, I would. But I have found some understanding that has helped me deal with my hatred towards the OW. I see that they are in pain too. Maybe we can help them understand our pain.
BUTAFLY Posted November 23, 2006 Posted November 23, 2006 If you are still here, please don't go. I need you because there are so few of us. You would think that the OW would appreciate the time that we spend here trying to understand their point of view. I have read your posts and you have not been anything but truthful. I guess some people don't want to hear our truth. Maybe it hurts them too much. They say that this is their forum and if they told me to leave, I would. But I have found some understanding that has helped me deal with my hatred towards the OW. I see that they are in pain too. Maybe we can help them understand our pain. I would go to the marriage room or infidilty room and ask. Just as you are coming here and asking. But there are times when we seek out our own for comfort. If you want answers for why your husband cheated and what it was like for him and his mistress then ask him or her. NO OW ON THIS SITE WILL HAVE THAT ANSWER FOR YOU.
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