Guest Posted November 20, 2006 Posted November 20, 2006 I know it hurts to face the truth that someone you loved has moved on, but I am really ready to accept that moving on is normal and just something I will have to face.... But... He "moved on" 4 days after our relationship of 4+ years ended....and a week later he MOVED IN with the girl. And from what I've seen/heard of this girl, she is the total opposite of me. None of his friends can believe he's with her. Some quick facts about her---She has a website where she posts provocative pictures of herself, she's a high-school drop out bartender, and openly she's bisexual). I know he wasn't cheating (we were always together, I verified his work schedule, all of his friends are my friends and confirmed his whereabouts when I wasn't with him, and I found the girl's blog and she JUST got out of a relationship weeks before he started dating her). So what is the deal? Did he really MOVE ON with THIS GIRL or is this screaming REBOUND? Help! I want to get over this but it's hard to just "face the facts" when the facts are out of this world.
Kamille Posted November 20, 2006 Posted November 20, 2006 Reeks of rebound! Consider he did you a favor. He gives you no choice but to move on.
miss snoopy Posted November 20, 2006 Posted November 20, 2006 She's probably the rebound but without knowing more about your relationship, it's difficult to say for sure. Maybe he cut off from you emotionally long before the break-up? This will make it easier for him to move on. Sometimes people want to date the opposite of their exes, I have seen this happen many times with friends, family, my own exes etc. The fact that he's moved in with another woman so soon should make you want to get over him pdq, easier said than done I know but the less this sort of scenario is analysed the better, as it's never going to make a lot of sense.
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